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29 M Napa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a silly, honest, and nice dude who cracks himself up when he makes his worst joke. I listen to and play music constantly, whether it's on an instrument, iPhone, or just in my head, something is usually constantly turning up there in thee ol' noggin. I try to be realistic about everything, but remain on the optimistic side every time. I used to live in France and I miss that place dearly. I believe there's a solution to every problem, and the solution never needs to be complex or difficult. I like to play games, one of my favorite ones is while driving, when I change lanes, I play the "don't hit the bumps on the dividing line" game. When you win, it's extremely satisfying.
What I’m doing with my life
I have been in a touring "rock n' roll" band for the past 4 years, and unfortunately, due to all sorts of turmoil, differences in opinions, making barely enough to scrape by, we're all of the sudden no longer touring. So for the time being, I am no longer a rambler. I'm teaching private lessons in violin, cello and viola at a music school and loving it. I'm also writing my own material again, I'm getting into composing and recording for production companies, and I want to dig deeper into helping artists and bands make records. I still play some shows all over the bay, but I can firmly say I'm digging relaxing and creating in sunny Napa. Sleeping in my own bed most nights of the week has been pretty neat too.
I’m really good at
patience, honesty, music, staying up late, being helpful, pretending the glass is half full.
The first things people usually notice about me
oh my god, my eyes, people look at me so strangely into my eyes, just kidding. On a more realistic note, people usually notice I'm wearing a hat, all of the time
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently (i've always had a hard time with "of all time"):
Shows: Breaking Bad, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report
Books: Life - Keith Richards, The Holy or The Broken - Alan Light
Music: listening to lots of John Hartford, Primus, ELO, and learning a whole lot of folk music
Food: I'm an "opportunivore", just stoked to eat most anything all the time, what a blessing.
The six things I could never do without
my hands, ears, instruments, my friends, family, hats, don't know what I'd do without my car either...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What makes a song a good song?
On a typical Friday night I am
playing a show, playing a guitar, hanging out with friends in the Bay Area, making cocktails, recording a new song, or watching some mindless movie, allowing the brain to idle for a bit
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I had a full head of hair. Embrace it dude...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want a conversation, or less serious... a "chat", want to hang out, want to go out for a drink, or make drinks, or a coffee, help get my Français back up to snuff, drink a bottle of Rosé, maybe go for a stroll or a hike, who knows, need a guitar lesson?