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30 Napa, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a silly, honest, and nice dude who cracks himself up when he makes his worst joke. I listen to and play music constantly, whether it's on an instrument, iPhone, or just in my head, something is usually constantly turning up there in thee ol' noggin. I try to be realistic about everything, but remain on the optimistic side every time. I used to live in France and I miss that place dearly. I believe there's a solution to every problem, and the solution never needs to be complex or difficult. I like to play games, one of my favorite ones is while driving, when I change lanes, I play the "don't hit the bumps on the dividing line" game. When you win, it's extremely satisfying.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been in a touring "rock n' roll" band for the past 4 years, and unfortunately, due to all sorts of turmoil, differences in opinions, making barely enough to scrape by, we're all of the sudden no longer touring. So for the time being, I am no longer a rambler. I'm teaching private lessons in violin, cello and viola at a music school and loving it. I'm also writing my own material again, I'm getting into composing and recording for production companies, and I want to dig deeper into helping artists and bands make records. I still play some shows all over the bay, but I can firmly say I'm digging relaxing and creating in sunny Napa. Sleeping in my own bed most nights of the week has been pretty neat too.
I’m really good at
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patience, honesty, music, staying up late, being helpful, pretending the glass is half full.
The first things people usually notice about me
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oh my god, my eyes, people look at me so strangely into my eyes, just kidding. On a more realistic note, people usually notice I'm wearing a hat, all of the time
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently (i've always had a hard time with "of all time"):
Shows: Breaking Bad, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report
Books: Life - Keith Richards, The Holy or The Broken - Alan Light
Music: listening to lots of John Hartford, Primus, ELO, and learning a whole lot of folk music
Food: I'm an "opportunivore", just stoked to eat most anything all the time, what a blessing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hands, ears, instruments, my friends, family, hats, don't know what I'd do without my car either...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes a song a good song?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing a show, playing a guitar, hanging out with friends in the Bay Area, making cocktails, recording a new song, or watching some mindless movie, allowing the brain to idle for a bit
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I had a full head of hair. Embrace it dude...
You should message me if
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If you want a conversation, or less serious... a "chat", want to hang out, want to go out for a drink, or make drinks, or a coffee, help get my Français back up to snuff, drink a bottle of Rosé, maybe go for a stroll or a hike, who knows, need a guitar lesson?

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