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29 M Santa Cruz, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is too complicated so I try to make it simpler.
So i -think- i'm INFJ but i don't know enough to say for sure. I would just be trusting a potentially stupid internet test.
I get easily bored with many things, so i move and change jobs often. But, i think i might settle down here in Cali, its definitely got the best vibe.
I change a lot, i feel more like a river than a stone.
"In the end, only three things matter: How much you loved, How gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you" ~Buddha
I have a strong sense of justice.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
[{my motto} If you can't change it, don't worry about it. If you can change it, change it, and don't worry about it.]
My ultimate goal in life is happiness.
I'm easy to please and if i want something I make it happen, so I am rarely left wanting. I stopped driving when i moved to chicago but would get a car if i absolutely had to for work or something but id more likely just move closer to my job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recommending good things to watch/listen to. Decent at: table tennis, disc golf, basketball, pool, video games, walking on rocks, swimming, cooking, camping, And if i haven't done it, i really want to. #1 on my list is rafting.
Quiet contemplation
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't talk alot. See
And then sometimes i won't shut up, guess its just a mood thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So i've officially given up trying to tame (and update)this section.
Epic Rap Battles of History, season 2(the presidential one is the best)
Movies - Riddick Trilogy, Cabaret, Scott Pilgrim, Black Swan, True Grit, Sucker Punch, Legend of the Guardians, Rise of the Guardians, Harry Potter, Newsies, Lord of the Rings/Hobbit, Appleseed, The last 30 minutes of Cabin in the Woods, The Avengers, The Count of Monte Cristo (old and new both good), Moonrise Kingdom, Brave, Ronal the Barbarian, Wreck it Ralph, Hero, Resident Evil 1 and RE:Retribution,
T.V. - 30rock, Big Bang, Game of Thrones, Merlin, Primeval, Attack on titan, Community, The Glades, Elementary, The Americans, Dr.who, Key and Peele, Tosh.0, Burn Notice, Family Guy etc. So You Think You Can Dance is easily one of my favorites and i absolutely hate reality/judge shows, but its different and sucks the emotions out of me.
Music: its a terrible question, anyone who is a real fan of multiple genres also hates that question. Its much easier to say i'm not a fan of country or pop. Of course I think i have great taste in music but i still listen to some danceable junk occasionally. I'm not a hipster listener (you know the ones I'm talking about), but i am an avid music junkie. Currently listening to BT ESCM
Books - I always keep a copy of Ishmael and Oryx and Crake to loan out. Enders Game series, HP, LOTR, Atlas Shrugged, The Cat that Walks Through Walls. The Perks of Being a Wallflower (didn't like the movie, love Emma Watson) Its hard I used to be able to look at my bookshelf and name my favorites but i've been moving around alot for the last 6 years and haven't been able to take them so i just buy thriftshop copies of my favorites as i see them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can for the most part be completey content without anything that i would have thought i needed. On that note music, sunglasses, greenery, internet, comfortable clothes, lots and lots of pillows/comfy bedding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
fixing problems, I'm handy.
Whenever its cold out i just wanna cuddle up under a blanket.
I'm a self proclaimed master (not really) of Portmanteau.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing video games or walking around aimlessly. I moved a few months ago and am now halfway between scotts valley and SC, its a pretty boring area. I don't find large groups as fun as other people and only go if i know someone there o generally i'll go to a bar or beach party no more than 2 times a month unless i'm dating someone that prefers to go more, but then i just get them to take me places with bar games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Stopped smoking, started vaporizing. I enjoy being high, if there isn't a reason to be sober, then i'm probably atleast a little high.
I guess i could add that I'm sort of extremely gullible. Not that i believe dumb stuff, but that i don't expect people to just lie to me, so if it MIGHT have happened, i'll take your word for it until i look it up.
You should message me if
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So this section got way too long and i wiped it. If your chill and considerate/nice, then you are awesome and i'll treat you like you are! msg me and we'll go do something that'll be fun even if we don't connect it'll be a nice day.
I suppose i'm cismale or cissexual, but i don't like labels. I happen to think sarongs are extremely comfortable but i don't own any. I'm polite for the most part and will initially open doors and offer to carry stuff but that's just because its how i grew up in the south and i think its nice, feel free to turn it down, i won't be in the least insulted.