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frescoDanconia

28 M Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Life is too complicated so I try to make it simpler.
So i -think- i'm INFJ but i don't know enough to say for sure. I would just be trusting a potentially stupid internet test.
I get easily bored with many things, so i move and change jobs often. But, i think i might settle down here in Cali, its definitely got the best vibe.
I change a lot, i feel more like a river than a stone.
"In the end, only three things matter: How much you loved, How gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you" ~Buddha
I have a strong sense of justice.
What I’m doing with my life
[{my motto} If you can't change it, don't worry about it. If you can change it, change it, and don't worry about it.]
My ultimate goal in life is happiness, for myself and others. I only have one multi-year long term goal. I want to sail far far away. Around the world, to one of the poles, whatever.
I have expectations as to how the rest of my life will go, and it looks great. I could go into a long activist speech about the state of the economy and the absence of the middle class, but lets just say no one has job security anymore. (Peek into my mind, Unpaid Internships ENRAGE me, bastards) I plan on having a tree house or green hole and living modestly. I'm easy to please but if i want something I make it happen, so I am rarely left wanting. I stopped driving when i moved to chicago but would get a car if the need arises. I'll admit I have things planned for 1 since i'll always be here, but I'd love to spend some time planning for 2.
I’m really good at
Recommending good things to watch/listen to. Decent at: table tennis, disc golf, basketball, pool, video games, walking on rocks, swimming, cooking, camping, And if i haven't done it, i really want to. #1 on my list is rafting.
Not talking =D
Giving massages and cuddling, as long as you don't mind falling asleep, seems to be a side effect of cuddling with me, I'm toasty.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't talk alot. See http://themetapicture.com/how-to-interact-with-the-introverted/
And then sometimes i won't shut up, guess its just a mood thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So i've officially given up trying to tame this section.
I'm a movie buff but updating this section would be a neverending task.
Epic Rap Battles of History, season 2(the presidential one is the best)
Movies - Riddick Trilogy, Cabaret, Scott Pilgrim, Black Swan, True Grit, Sucker Punch, Legend of the Guardians, Rise of the Guardians, Harry Potter, Newsies, Lord of the Rings/Hobbit, Appleseed, The last 30 minutes of Cabin in the Woods, The Avengers, The Count of Monte Cristo (old and new both good), Moonrise Kingdom, Brave, Ronal the Barbarian, Wreck it Ralph, Hero, Resident Evil 1 and RE:Retribution,
T.V. - 30rock, Big Bang, Game of Thrones, Merlin, Primeval, Attack on titan, Community, The Glades, Elementary, The Americans, Dr.who, Key and Peele, Tosh.0, Burn Notice, Family Guy etc. So You Think You Can Dance is easily one of my favorites and i absolutely hate reality/judge shows, but its different and sucks the emotions out of me.
Music: its a terrible question, anyone who is a real fan of multiple genres also hates that question. Its much easier to say i'm not a fan of country or pop. Of course I think i have great taste in music but i still listen to some danceable junk occasionally. I'm not a hipster listener (you know the ones I'm talking about), but i am an avid music junkie. Currently listening to BT ESCM
Books - I always keep a copy of Ishmael and Oryx and Crake to loan out. Enders Game series, HP, LOTR, Atlas Shrugged, The Cat that Walks Through Walls. The Perks of Being a Wallflower (didn't like the movie, love Emma Watson) Its hard I used to be able to look at my bookshelf and name my favorites but i've been moving around alot for the last 6 years and haven't been able to take them so i just buy thriftshop copies of my favorites as i see them.
The six things I could never do without
I've found out in my travels that i can be completey content without anything that i would have thought i needed. On that note music, sunglasses, greenery, internet, comfortable clothes, lots and lots of pillows/comfy bedding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
fixing problems, I'm handy.
Whenever its cold out i just wanna cuddle up under a blanket.
I'm a master of Portmanteau, and don't usually say them aloud, they are just for my own amusement.
It's nice to have a caring relationship with long term goals but I'd rather be happier than not, no matter the length of time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing video games or walking around aimlessly. I moved a few months ago and am now halfway between scotts valley and SC, its a pretty boring area. I don't find large groups as fun as other people and only go because others want to. So generally i'll go to a bar or beach party no more than 2 times a month unless i'm dating someone that is a partier, but then i just get them to take me places with games, i'll play the hell out of some pool, table tennis, beer pong, been a long time since i played darts but i was good a few years ago.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll smoke cigarettes randomly but don't mind not smoking.
I guess i could add that I'm sort of extremely gullible. Not that i believe dumb stuff, but that i don't expect people to just lie to me, so if it MIGHT have happened, i'll take your word for it until i look it up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
So this section got way too long and i wiped it. If your chill and considerate/nice, then you are awesome and i'll treat you like you are! msg me and we'll go do something that'll be fun even if we don't connect it'll be a nice day. Also i roll great blunts if your into that kind of thing.
I suppose i'm cismale or cissexual, but i don't like labels. I happen to think sarongs are soooooooo comfortable. I'm inclusive and polite, using preferred gender pronouns etc. I will initially open doors and offer to carry stuff but that's just because its how i grew up in the south and i think its nice, feel free to turn it down, i won't be in the least insulted.