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37 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:29pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I never know what to write. I feel like I am trying to "sell" myself. How do you tell a story about yourself to allow people to see a glimmer of who you are? There is so much more to me than what these little boxes will allow. But here we go.

I am curious where all the single 30;40-somethings are? I know we are not all taken or nesting as many of my friends fall into this "wanting to date" realm. I am a mini-hub in that I know a lot of people but I realize there are so many people I don't know who do not run in my general circles and that is who I hope to meet!

In my ideal world, I am looking for someone that I connect with on many levels for a long-term relationship and hopefully a life partner. I do not have kids but I am interested in having a family. I realize this means friendship and dating to find the right match. I am identified as monogamous person and am seeking the same with that said I have been monogamous flexible in some (not all) previous relationships.

That said. I am currently single, quirky, witty, crafty/artsy, a little bit geeky, good listener, empathetic, P-Patcher (I garden), reader, scrabble player, sewing, nature lover, sunsets at Carkeek Park, walking/hiking, I do own a bicycle that needs to be utilized much more than I have been lately, much more!
In summary :), I am comfortable out and about (nature, theatre, museums, music) and staying in snuggling while watching a movie! I enjoy both long conversations and quietly sitting with one another.

I am funny, intelligent/quirky, and self-aware. Sometimes been told I am too serious but I do know how to have fun.

I admit to being a little bit woo woo and identify as spiritual agnostic.


Sex Positive and Body Positive.

I love to cook especially fresh from the farmer's market. I love baking lately I have been on a pie kick. I have a small cookbook obsession though I have limited it to about 1 bookshelf err ok maybe 2.

I am a Meyers Brigg INFJ but almost done the middle in that I could have easily fallen to the other side as well.

I am looking for someone who is attracted to me (important to know: I am an BBW) as much as I am attracted to them and is not afraid to say it or show it! A person who is on their life path or getting close to that path, someone who is self-aware and a great communicator. Brains are super sexy.

Also, I utilized the box of bisexual (which I kinda of dislike due to all the negative connotations and thought processes that come with that as well as the binary thought process of gender) but I truly identify as being Queer in that generally I have dated females, FtM and cis-gendered males.
What I’m doing with my life
Well I initially wanted to answer this with my job but there is so much more to me than my job. I guess I would say I am living my life. Seeking adventure and continuing the process of learning. But if you are curious about the work side of me...I work in HR and I am thinking about my master's degree at some point. Currently I seem to be making quilts for all my friends who seem to be having little ones and gardening in my P Patch Plot.
I’m really good at
- being me (tend to be more on the serious side I am told but not always), excellent friend, fabulous sister, listener, objective, hugging, being straight forward in communication yet being aware of delicate situations, been told I am a good kisser (as well), snuggling/cuddling, ....

Other things: berry picking, cooking, gardening, taking photos (nothing serious just fun), being so engrossed in a conversation with someone that time passes to quickly...
The first things people usually notice about me
- smile (that can be mischevious too)
- eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. I read a lot. Currently seem to be into Dystopian novels (i.e.) - Wool (series), Divergent, The Hunger Games Series, Maze Runner Series as well as The 13th Reality series. Other books I enjoy: The Night Circus, Regarding Ducks and the Universe, Interworld, Ender's Game, Fahrenheit 451, Tales from Atop a Russian Stove, Flat Out Love, Mercedes Lackey books. Catherine Asaro, as well as regular fiction and current affairs. Oh and biographies. Secretly, I read teen novels occasionally.

As for TV: Doctor Who, Glee, Bones... but in all honesty, my tv has been off and I have been reading a lot this winter.

Movies: Circle of Friends, 5th element, Never Ending Story, Dead Poet's Society. - Harry Potter, Pride and Prejudice (I have a couple of versions including the bollywood version), ....

I <3 my roku and find myself watching PBS specials, the discovery channel, TED Talks.

I also enjoy going to live musical theatre.

Music - I like music. I am deficient in knowing group names and really can't remember the last bit of music I bought. Truth is, I tend to listen to NPR.

Food - I eat most types a few there are a few cuisines that I do not care for but generally...can find something anywhere that I like.
The six things I could never do without
- Family (I am really close with my family) and Friends (both are important and some of my friends are chosen family) and my cat
- Human Touch (sex, kissing cuddling)
- I am extroverted but I value my introverted time to recharge
- Books
- Bodies of Water, Mountains, Trees, Sunsets (basically the Northwest )
- Creative Outlets/adventures

Ok this is way more than 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have a very analytical yet imaginative brain. I am usually thinking about self awareness, life path, manifesting new ideas in my life path. Interactions with others, my next creative project, my garden. Or a new recipe to try out, a place I want to visit, past events in my life and perhaps in my future, self-evaluation, sex (lil'kinky and vanilla), there are no limits in my mind and I think a lot....
On a typical Friday night I am
It really depends on the season and the Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love fun socks (don't be scared I wear basic ones as well).
As a child, I had trouble with saying words with "R" in them.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 33–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are intrigued and find me cute! Have a basic understanding of self and the road you are on. In your message, tell me a story, something about your self or what caught your eye. I need a bit more than just a hi or I like your pictures. :)