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39 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 33–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 2
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Wants kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am curious where all the single 30;40-somethings are? I know we are not all taken or nesting as many of my friends fall into this "wanting to date" realm.

That said. I am currently single, quirky, witty, crafty/artsy, a little bit geeky, good listener, empathetic, P-Patcher (I garden), reader, scrabble player, sewing, nature lover.

In summary :), I am comfortable out and about (nature, theatre, museums, music) and staying in snuggling while watching a movie! I enjoy both long conversations and quietly sitting with one another.

I admit to being a little bit woo woo and identify as spiritual agnostic.


Sex Positive.

I love to cook especially fresh from the farmer's market.

Attraction is important.

A person who self-aware and a great communicator. Brains are super sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently taking an improv class and loving it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- being me (tend to be more on the serious side I am told but not always), excellent friend, fabulous sister, listener, objective, hugging, being straight forward in communication yet being aware of delicate situations, been told I am a good kisser (as well), snuggling/cuddling, ....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- smile (that can be mischevious too)
- eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books. I read a lot. Currently seem to be into Dystopian novels (i.e.) - Wool (series), Night Circus, Regarding Ducks and the Universe, Ender's Game, Fahrenheit 451, Reiki books.

As for TV: Doctor Who, Glee, Bones

Movies: Pride and Prejudice, Fifth Element, Circle of Friends, documentaries

I also enjoy going to live musical theatre.

Music - I like music. I am deficient in knowing group names and really can't remember the last bit of music I bought. Truth is, I tend to listen to NPR.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Family (I am really close with my family) and Friends (both are important and some of my friends are chosen family) and my cat
- Human Touch (touch oriented person, cuddling, kissing, sex and the intersection of self, partner, spirituality, sensual touch, massage)
- I am extroverted but I value my introverted time to recharge
- Books
- Bodies of Water, Mountains, Trees, Sunsets (basically the Northwest )
- Creative Outlets/adventures

Ok this is way more than 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have a very analytical yet imaginative brain. I am usually thinking about self awareness, life path, manifesting ideas. Interactions with others, my next creative project, my garden, spirituality, places I want to visit, past events in my life and perhaps in my future, self-evaluation, sex (lil'kinky and vanilla), spirituality/sex, meditation, breath work, tantra, there are no limits in my mind and I think a lot....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really depends on the season and the Friday. Lately, I have been hanging out with friends and going to Improv shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like fun socks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are intrigued and find me cute! In your message, tell me a story, something about your self or what caught your eye. I need a bit more than just a hi or I like your pictures. :)