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friendpolarbear

30 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Edinburgh, United Kingdom

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Lovely

Oct 28, 2012

When you message someone and then they delete their profile, it's hard not to think "What did I say?!" even though it probably had nothing to do with you. This is well-known. Today, though, I managed to get someone to delete her profile while I was in the middle of writing a message to her, before I'd even sent it. That's pretty special. What do I win?

And I would just take it in my stride and it wouldn't bother me except... except, well, I've been finding it difficult to work up the enthusiasm to message people lately, so finding someone I actually want to send a message to is pretty rare.

In other news, a thing I learned today is that if you rate highly someone who rated you highly years ago, you don't get a notification message. I suppose that makes sense.

When you message someone and then they delete their profile,it's hard not to think "What did I say?!" even though it probablyhad nothing to do with you. This is well-known. Today, though, Imanaged to get someone to delete her profile while I was in themiddle of writing a message to her, before I'd even sent it.That's pretty special. What do I win?

And I would just take it in my stride and it wouldn't bother meexcept... except, well, I've been finding it difficult to work upthe enthusiasm to message people lately, so finding someone Iactually want to send a message to is pretty rare.

In other news, a thing I learned today is that if you ratehighly someone who rated you highly years ago, you don'tget a notification message. I suppose that makes sense.

Lovely
people delete all the time and very rarely has something to do with a random guy who messaged them.

also, you get a notification message when someone rates you highly these days, even if you haven't rated them.

A former user commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of rubberchicken_ You have that David Spade look, its understandable.

rubberchicken_ commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of diamondflamer I had someone propose to me and I said yes and then he went and deleted. Something tells me he wasn't actually serious :(

diamondflamer commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of __whatever bummer, diamond. I got dumped last night. he hasn't deleted yet though.

__whatever commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of Rexxy_ David Spade?

I thought more like Lord Of The Rings guy.

Rexxy_ commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of friendpolarbear

Which one? I have had both Viggo Mortensen and Sean Bean.

And by 'had', I mean "been compared to", not the other thing.

friendpolarbear commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of Rexxy_ LOL Not Viggo. The Blond guy who's the brother of the other blond guy

Boromir

Rexxy_ commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of heartysmarty sean bean. who also had a notable role on game of thrones. totally brave, courageous, honorable, just... *fans herself*

heartysmarty commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of Rexxy_ tag fail

Boromir

Rexxy_ commented on Oct 28, 2012

An image of friendpolarbear Ah, I was actually compared to him back when he was Sharpe. And I was about 13. But yeah.

friendpolarbear commented on Oct 28, 2012