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friendpolarbear

30 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Edinburgh, United Kingdom

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fpb just keeps talking about messages

Oct 31, 2012

A while back, I wrote a post about how the key to successful messaging was to stop caring so much whether you get responses. (There are some other aspects I'd like to add in future, but I won't talk about them today.)

The past few days, I've been a little depressed. Not enough for the depression to come through in my messages, I think, but enough for me to care more whether I do or don't get a response. And, wouldn't you know it? My response rate has fallen.

So I guess the point of this post is I was right. Ner ner.

A while back, I wrote a post about how the key to successfulmessaging was to stop caring so much whether you get responses.(There are some other aspects I'd like to add in future, but Iwon't talk about them today.)

The past few days, I've been a little depressed. Not enough forthe depression to come through in my messages, I think, but enoughfor me to care more whether I do or don't get a response. And,wouldn't you know it? My response rate has fallen.

So I guess the point of this post is I was right. Ner ner.

fpb just keeps talking about messages