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frinkySF

42 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:23am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(no, my name is not some derivation kinky. not that there's anything wrong with kinky but it is not the foundation of my username)

* originally from san diego, i progressed up the coast and am going on 18 years in the city (went to school at cal poly and miss the slo life)

* pretty simple but not a simpleton and happy go lucky most of the time.

* believe in working hard and take good care of myself and my body

* always listening to music even if just in my head.

* a bit of a romantic and believe chivalry is not dead.

* an affinity for words and diction yet swear like a sailor.

* an anomaly having grown up on the beach but am a hockey lovin fool (my passion, my love, my therapy). and very competitive but in no way a prick about it.

* worked in mexico at a fish packing plant and was known as "the dork on the fork" (i was a forklift operator) and since the mexicans had no word for dork i became "el idiota en la horquilla". it sparked my desire to learn about other cultures. since then i have hit five different continents and still have crazy wanderlust for more.

* have three siblings and 7 nieces and newphews and it never ceases to amaze me how fast they are all growing up. my mom is a walking thesaurus and i am happy to have inherited my dad's athleticism

* my grandparents will celebrate their 73 wedding anniversary this fall. my grandma is one of the best people i have ever met. at 89 she still wears her "still sexy at 70" shirt and always asks "so....are ya gettin any" and once told a friend and i before her dr visit she had to "get her titties checked"

* as for my girl, my lady, my queen, my foxy momma... smart and sweet is the best (a good brain is *so* sexy : ) i need a girl who can get my mental motor revving and challenge me. i appreciate communication and a girl who can express herself. playful, affectionate and silly are all good with me.

as for what is is i seek here well, i'm open to the possibilities. and if i may (i borrowed this quote)...

"so like the years and seasons pass
and like the sand that runs thru the hour glass
i just keep running faster
chasing the happily i am ever after"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
my dream job would be power forward in the nhl or maybe matador (it's the sweet outfits). since neither panned out, i am working in biz dev.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
traveling, playing hockey, making people laugh, taking random ass pics, seeing live music, daydreaming, making silly conversation, drinking tasty beers, sleeping on rainy days, singing along with old hip hop, making martinis, not keeping plants alive, anything outdoorsy, lounging in the park, drinking in the sun, playing frisbee golf at nite, finding kick ass pho, stepping on my parnters toes while trying to dance at the el rio for salsa sundays, making french toast, quoting john huges films, road trips
The first things people usually notice about me
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ummm, i'd have to ask you
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
anything from john hughes, lost in translation, romancing the stone, friday, happy gilmore, office space, clerrrrrks, the coup, the roots, pharcyde,rodrigo y gabriela, lcd soundsystem, mc solaar, mos def, rogue wave, iron & wine, ac/dc, lyrics born, rodrigo y gabriela, infinite jest, anything by tom robbins, kitchen confidential, the onion, pho, sushi, any kind of mexican food, indian food, bad religion (from the 80's), red hot chili peppers (from the 80's), angie stone, bloc party, dub reggae, the pixies, tribe, the daily show and of course, colbert, goat cheese, chico's calzones, tv on the radio, cowboy junkies, the beatles (greatest band ever), the hives, de la soul, white stripes, all zeppelin, ac/dc, the replacements, fugazi, tidal by fiona apple is amazing (her first), i could rattle on this shit fer days
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nhl playoffs (hockey in general), my iPod (alllllll of my music), tasty beer, my funny friends and family, rainy days, al pastor tacos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
traveling to far away land and getting lost in a new culture while taking tons of pics. i daydream about playing hockey (making the perfect tape to tape pass). how shitty other drivers are. moving back to san luis obispo. how much i love beer and wish it were good for my body : (
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
more and more frequently after a long week, i'm staying in these days . but i'm always open to dinner / drinkies with friends, seeing live music or heading out of two for a weekend away.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nice try
You should message me if
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you are fun, sweet, cute and have a razor sharp wit.