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friskygent4u

55 / M / Straight / Available

Stoughton, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:23pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Sensual, warm hearted soul prepared to light a mutual fire and share basking in the glow. Some fires are meant to be special affairs -- long remembered, and deeply cherished. Seeking a tender, caring, and sensuous, relationship built on a foundation of mutual respect … to seduce and be seduced … to tease-and-please each other … to rest in each other's arms between repeated sessions of shared passion. While resting, we could talk -- whatever you wish … intimate or intellectual? I'll take my cues from my partner and will ALWAYS be respectful of her wishes. I am a tall (6’1”), fun, fit, well-traveled, over-educated gentleman.

I am amiable, insightful, and sensual.

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What I’m doing with my life
I’ve recently slowed down my consulting and speaking around the world to sequester myself in my office to work on a book. I'm looking forward to resuming my worldwide travels as soon as the writing is done. I'm comfortable in work-boots or hiking-boots or in a top-hat or tux, and yes, I own all four of those items of attire.

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I’m really good at
Being mellow with a partner to share my deep background and enthusiasm for a number of avocational interests--both indoors and outdoors (e.g. cycling, hiking, canoeing, photography, woodworking, etc.). Yet also being very willing, and most eager, to imbibe the excitement, enthusiasm, and knowledge of my partner for whatever inspires her.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Genuine (with no airs), intelligent/insightful, understanding/empathetic, friendly/approachable, listens well, and tells a story well.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Read widely, mostly non-fiction, in diverse areas of the arts (fine art, decorative art, graphic design, fine craftsmanship), the natural & social sciences, and technology. What's a 'movie'? I do watch movies, but am not a maven. Music ... all types, especially classical, and some jazz/country. Food ... healthy food.

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The six things I could never do without
Maslow's oft-quoted hierarchies, articulated in his 1943 paper, identify 28 basic needs ... of which I am blessed to have met most.

Beyond the basics, I will thrive on the challenges as I:

(1) increase my knowledge in many areas,

(2) creatively link threads from different disciplines creating a synergy,

(3) parse out rules/themes/issues within any problem or domain,

(4) pass on my knowledge and insights (from 1-3) to others through … sharing on a personal level with a partner, teaching, and writing,

(5) volunteer time with youth ... serving as a role model, imparting skills and inspiring a wonder of the world and how it works,

(6) share a passionate, sensual, intimacy with a close partner.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Items 1-6, above.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Beginning to rejeuvenate from the week before.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ummmm... No ... not here ... but ask me.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47-67
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are a woman who yearns to share the joys of the intellect (as touched upon above), as well as the joys of a passionate, sensual, intimacy with a close partner.

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