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49 F Van Nuys, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I wasn't getting the kinds of responses to my ad that I was hoping for, so a friend of mine looked it over and helped tone down the sexuality a bit. It seems I was attracting twenty somethings and "open" couples who were looking for a good time. Well, the fact is, the new ad simply wasn't "me". Sex is a large part of who I am, and trying to subdue that took the fire out of my ad. That said, I have only had sex with one man in the past 5 years. I don't sleep around. Not because it's "wrong", it just doesn't feel good to me. So, here it is in all it's sluttyness. If you're interested in a woman who no longer feels the need to subdue her true nature, please feel free to contact me.

The changes that I've gone through in the last couple of years are very difficult to express. I dabbled a bit in Krishnamurti, read some Tolle and Katie. Really resonated with what a fellow named Harrison had to say. Finally, have settled into simply "being" and enjoying the blissful silence that seems to be my primary state these days.

Through this experience, I've discovered many glorious, new friends. I stopped working for a bit, and discovered that I really LIKE being productive. I enjoy being of service, and maintaining my connection with others who are keeping the machinery of civilization alive.

I'm a very fun, happy, goofy, busy, fulfilled and successful woman who doesn't need a man or a relationship, but who WANTS one. Somehow, that whole "soulmate" "wanna just eat you up" thing has alluded me.

I am looking for a mate that is ready to see what's real. I'm an extremely passionate woman who loves deeply, is sincerely silly, and wants to share a life with someone who has the capacity to be truly happy. I'm looking for a best friend and partner who is romantic and sexy, who has the ability to love unconditionally, and who has the good taste to think I'm AMAZING! :)

The outdoors calls to me, and I walk or ride my bike wherever possible. Hiking is a passion, and I would love to find someone who could share that with me.

After being on here a bit, I thought it wise to add the following:

The only people who post half naked pictures of themselves that will get a response to their email are Hugh Jackman and guys with pictures of themselves at the beach, or playing football with their kids. That said, if Hugh Jackman DOES write me, and he mentions the size of his member PRIOR to our even meeting, he will be proptly deleted and reported.

If you have a picture on this site of you with something you've just killed, please don't contact me. I'm not going to respond, and it just makes me sad :(

While I greatly appreciate the attention, I am just not interested in meeting guys in their 20's. It may very well be that I "don't know good lovin' until I've met you" and you're very "mature for your age", but, no!

I don't tend to enjoy travel. If that's what inspires you, I doubt we'd be a match. Spending a week camping/hiking in a secluded wood...Now THAT would be another story...

I am a vegan (that's a vegetarian that does not eat or use any animal products). I do not drink, smoke pot or do harder drugs. I can certainly be flexible, but I'm just not going to be comfortable with any of these things on a regular basis.

As many people on here have mentioned, please have current pictures. I am looking for sexual attraction, and a realistic depiction of yourself really will save us both a lot of trouble. I also care a lot more about your eyes, or your warm smile, than I do about your sky diving or rock climbing adventures.

One person's sex god is another's "eh". I have been attracted to older men, younger men, furry men, short men, tall men, all sortsa' men...I love the way men smell, and their hands and the way their forearm attaches to their elbow...but I digress...Just be real, and let's take it from there, shall we? :)
What I’m doing with my life
I have an internet business and co-own a vegan restaurant in Studio City. I'm in there most nights making desserts and a general nuisance of myself. I spend a couple of hours a day either walking or riding my bike. When I can, I hike some of the beautiful trails here in LA. I'm a cat lady (have the t-shirt), but have not had kittens in awhile. I rescue when I can, and periodically volunteer at various animal organizations.
I’m really good at
Let's just say you won't be disappointed... :D
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes
My smile
My southern accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a vegan, so I love food...we all do. Not sure why, but it's a blessing, not a curse...seriously!
I love going to plays and musicals
To the chagrin of most of my men friends (and my poor son), I like sappy, pop music. Big fan of Maroon 5 at the moment.
Currently reading a book my son gave me for Christmas. It's called "Buddy" and is about a guy who learns life lessons from a rooster. Did I mention I love chickens??? :)
The six things I could never do without
My son (who is 27 and no longer lives at home)
My cats (who DO still live at home)
My wonderful friends
The smell and silence of a forest after a rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why do we take this all so seriously?
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually out with friends. Movies, dinner, a play. The occasional moonlight hike.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm open. Ask me anything...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're happy
You're real
You're frisky
You love cats
You're vegetarian or close to it