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37 Saint Paul, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a funny, easy-going college graduate with two jobs whose life only sometimes revolves around work. I am one of those really strange people who likes to work and have been told by my acupuncturist to seek more balance. So I am...

I am also trying to see if there are any decent guys left with something other than video games to talk about. In fact being able to have a balanced conversation is important to me. So guys, use your words... ;) In other words if all you send is a Hi, then I often don't respond...

I like my family and friends above stuff, and I do my absolute best to find joy in everyday things (most of the time I am successful); I am mostly a positive person. I love to read, cook, do the movie thing, enjoy a glass of wine, exercise (when motivated), spend time at the cabin, play cards/board games, take walks and be outside in my humble garden.

I also love hockey and it's kind of a deal breaker to at least put up with it, but I would really like someone who likes it too! Go Wild! (And b/c I am from TX - Go Stars!)

I like to think I am pretty witty and I love to laugh. :)

****Please note, I want to have a child someday so if that's not part of your future, let's not waste time. Good luck out there!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am in education. I work for a curriculum company and love it. I used to teach and so maybe that is part of the reason I usually feel dorky or nerdy. I see those as positive qualities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
English stuff and cooking and teaching. I do like to think I am good listener, at least that's what I am told.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and hair on a physical level (and sometimes my crazy socks). On a personal level, I have been told many times I am easy to talk to and a free laugher... beyond that you will have to discover that for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love most food (except olives). Favorite music is also a long list so my top 3 are John Butler Trio, DMB, and U2. I like a bunch of movies too, so to name a few, the HP series, the Dragon tattoo series in Sweedish, Amelie, Mystery Alaska, French Kiss, and Zach and Miri... I like shows like the GoT, The Musketeers, Burn Notice, The Office, Parks and Rec, and I am an avid Glee fan! I know that last will send you running for the hills but oh well. It is simply too fun! I also totally sing along with it... sorry in advance.

I love to read and have too many favorites to list here, but a sample would included TFIOS, Harry Potter, Life of Pi, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Song of Fire and Ice series (and yes I watch GoT). Basically, my reading serves to reinforce my nerdiness... Which I in no way downplay. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books 2. music 3. my family (especially my mom) 4. My friends 5. my cats 6. the ability to make lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering where my keys are, how fortunate I am to have so many wonderful people in my life, and yes, some work stuff...

Oh and silently correcting the grammar on some of these profiles. Just calling a spade a spade.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. Reading, watching a movie, hanging out with family or friends, or trying a new restaurant with my bestie... it totally depends. If I am really lucky, I am driving to the family cabin!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can curl my tongue both ways, at the same time.

Either that's gross or kinda cool or a turn on. You decide.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can say more than just "hi", you can carry a good conversation, are kind, know how to punctuate and spell a little, like hockey, or simply because you think I am wicked awesome! LOL

OR if you need help editing your site. I don't think perfection is required but if you spell every 4th word wrong, I am happy to help...

Note, that if all you say is hi, I probably won't respond.