Ah, a bio, great I dislike labels but here they come.
I am a married-poly-atheist-liberal-father-gee­​k.

I love my wife, my family and my life.

"Then why are you on a dating site?" You ask.

Well, first off I didn't really know it was a dating site. Just some of my friends kept linking to 'quizzes' on here and hey, I goof off at work too...

Secondly, I am poly. So while I'm not what I would term 'looking for a new relationship' I am open to the idea that one could develop. I only have one ticket to this roller coaster and I don't want to have regrets when the ride is over.

Thirdly, my wife is poly and bi, so we have had other 'encounters' as well as relationships both as individuals and as a couple. Now, we aren't exactly swingers-r-us, again it's not like we are on the prowl, but every so often we meet people that we would really like to get to know better.

Fourthly, flirting just feels so good. Everyone enjoys feeling desired. Ok, probably not everyone. But everyone that I know anyway.

Atheist: I don't see much evidence or need for some fanciful Creator of the Universe. To me it is much MORE magical and wondrous to think that we and the world have come about in ways that CAN be explained and understood through science. Saying that some 'magic dude' waved his hand and the world was created from a puff of smoke sounds like bad writing.

Liberal: Hmm, how to say this. I think people are more important than money. Your money, my money, everyone's money. Why the hell does anyone need a $50,000.00 dollar car? Raise our taxes 5% and take care of the schools, the roads & the poor. "No, can't do that, then I would only be able to afford a $47,500.00 car! How would I live?" Please, we need to work on our priorities here...

Father: Step-Father, I haven't really done a great job in this area, but at least I'm still trying & learning & un-learning. Father, Well at least I had some practice first. It is very weird to have little people that depend on you so much. And even weirder to realize and adapt to the fact that they 'need' you a little bit less everyday, but that they still need your love, perhaps more and more, everyday.

Geek: Full blown growing up geek: the bad hair and mother-picked-out clothes. Now that I am grown up, I can't blame anyone but me. I love computers, RPG's, anime, sci-fi, puns, British comedy & physics jokes. In short: Geek.

I'm a sysadmin for a Manufacturer of automobile components (yes, they are in that bad shape right now...). (Yes, there are a few companies that still make things here in the US).

We make seals for wiring harnesses. FEEL the excitement in the air!

Listening,
Not Judging,
Fixing computers,
Making lists of things that I am good at...

I don't know, I usually don't notice me...
probably, that I am annoyingly happy...
Which is probably just a nice way to say that I can be annoying sometimes.

(a) Hard-Scifi (Heinlein, Bear, Niven, Williams)
(b) Contact, Gandhi, Secretary, Nausicaa
(c) Fiona Apple, Crystal Method, Jack Johnson, Tori Amos
(d) Mexican, Filet Mignon, most things Cajun, Pasta

Love,
Air,
Water,
Food,
Knowledge,
Passion

Politics and why people hate.
Computers and tech in general.
How to make my lover happy. Yes, that is a way to say I think about sex...
Just what are 'family values'?
Why other people want to tell me what I can marry, were I can put my genitals & what god I can talk to. Like it affects them in any way?

Probably out on a date with my wife, having a nice dinner and a few drinks. Maybe go out after that and see if there is anything going on at the local clubs.

Or having a quiet night at home cuddling with a movie or two (Or Bones).

Private? I don't know. I'm not really a private person, I'll answer just about any question. I just don't usually think that others would want to know.

You want to. I'm shy but I do like meeting other people. Crazy ain't it.