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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 8:10pm
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Oh, dear. I'm a writer, but ask me to write about myself, and I go blank. Speechless (a rare occurrence). But, here goes. Life-long New Yorker who moved—kicking and screaming— to LA about ten years ago...closer to 15, now that I think about it. Much to my surprise (and my east coast friends, who started a pool predicting my return) I've come to really love it here.
What I’m doing with my life
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In a bit of a transition. My decision to cast my career at the nexus of music and journalism didn't quite pan out as planned (had a good run, but work that I enjoyed became harder and harder to find—and started paying less and less), so I've made a move into television and back to my first love, writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'd like to say writing. I think I can swing a pretty good sentence, but I'll leave that decision to you. Also a pretty good cook, better-than-average DJ, and able to tell a joke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intelligence and sense of humor. Next, they express amazement at my extraordinarily large......vocabulary.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This changes day to day, sometimes hour by hour. Probably best to just list when I've read, heard and seen recently. Movies: Saw The Master (in 70mm at the Dome) It's a big, impressive work, but still haven't really processed it. Searching For Sugarman, a wonderful documentary about Rodriguez, a singer/songwriter who had no impact in the States, but became at superstar (without his knowledge) in South Africa. On cable: Bringing Up Baby, Night of the Hunter, the lesser-known silent comedians (Fatty Arbuckle, Ben Turpin, Charley Chase) that have been showing up on TCM Thursday nights. TV: 30 Rock, Modern Family, Fringe, Treme, Top Chef, Pawn Stars. Books: Big fan of Don DiLillo and Philip Roth; went through a stretch where I read Jane Austen, Edith Wharton, and Henry James. Love mysteries and detective stories: Chandler (The Long Goodbye is one of the best books about Southern California), McDonald, Michael Connelly from LA; Ian Rankin and Georges Simenon from Europe. Not a fan of the Millennium Trilogy books. Think Lisbeth Sandaler is a great character, but, Larsson is not much of a storyteller; the plots are clunky and the writing pedestrian. My taste in music? Think an edgier and broader KCRW; from electronic dance music to Gregorian chants and much in between. Also love live music, from a small club the Bowl. Hope this clears things up.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a well-written book
the love of a good woman
red wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Easier to say I spend a lot of time thinking: Politics, art, books, movies, music, why would anyone own a toy dog, what is it about BMWs that attracts asshole drivers, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really is no typical Friday. Could be out seeing a band, having dinner with friends, at the Arclight, or just home, relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Will not be admitted here. I usually wait for a face to face meeting for that.
You should message me if
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If you're intrigued by anything you've read here.