I am looking to date great guys who are not afraid of intimacy or commitment.

I am passionate, driven, and fun to be around, and love nights out, cocktails, & dinners with friends as much as I love quiet nights in with Netflix on the couch.

I lived in LA for a few years and I still spend time there for work but New York is my home and I'm looking for people who are either in the same boat or at least aren't looking to leave the city.

I describe myself as a critical thinker and can occasionally an opinionated loudmouth but you can take me most places without fear of embarrassment.

I can be a charming and entertaining first date, and would much prefer to meet in person than carry on a long email correspondence.

i'm a producer/director in the film/tv industry. i have worked across all levels of it and done things i'm very proud of and also things that have paid me well. in my spare time, i'm a sometime political blogger, an armchair radical, and a knowledge-seeker.

i'm a really good listener, and i'm very intuitive. i am pretty durn good at communicating in general. i'm a good cook and a good friend too!

nobody ever tells me this.

Movies: The Matrix, Fight Club, Safe, Heathers, Enemy of the State, Soapdish, Legally Blonde, Inglourious Basterds,
Books: The Marriage Plot, The Buddha of Suburbia, Fast Food Nation
Music: The Smiths, Arcade Fire, Miike Snow, Madonna, Phoenix, Vampire Weekend, Pulp, Basement Jaxx, Avan Lava, The Cardigans, LCD Soundsystem, Bjork, Bowie
Food: French, Chinese, Ethiopian, Indian, home-cooked

there's always chapstick and a kleenex in my pocket.
i check my email pretty compulsively on one device or another.
after that, see maslow's hierarchy of needs...

i have devoted my life to storytelling and i spend a lot of time thinking about stories and how they are constructed.

there's no such thing as a typical friday

i'm willing to admit just about everything but i don't peel back the layers without a little prompting...

you're adorable, affectionate, direct and you have good hair.