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frostmug

46 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Somewhat recently returned from 7 months in Tajikistan doing research. I love it here, but also can't wait to return for short trips.

Not the biggest fan of writing an online profile, so I'm sure to fumble through this. All that follows may or may not be true dependent upon circumstances and perspective...

I'm mature, educated and masculine and am ready to meet a dynamite woman who can keep up with my wit, tolerate my occasional stubbornness, and keep my ego in check. I'm supportive and nurturing to the things that make my partner happy and fulfilled and expect the same. I feel a lot younger than I am, but I'm a lot smarter than I was then...

Always up for something new...or old. Please be well traveled - or at least willing to entertain going to strange and interesting places.

I like having conversations about things that matter - at least I/we think matter. I also like sharing those quiet moments with a partner when you don't have to talk - you can just be. Together. I like to take my date to a show or dinner, with or without our friends; we decide.

Texting is great but I like to call when its important or something could be misunderstood; I'm more careful about that these days. I am thankful that this site doesn't have so many (solely) pet photos. I'm not interested in dating your dog/cat, though I'm sure I'll love to play with it!

In the short run I could be diverted into some temporary fun, but in the long run I am looking for a committed relationship. That said, I've been around the block and know that such relationships are best not rushed and there is a lot of fun and exploration first. So mostly I am looking to meet new people casually and allow good things to happen if the chemistry is right.
What I’m doing with my life
grad school
teaching
traveling
reading
enjoying everything Portland
being there for friends
I’m really good at
writing.
cooking for friends (and dates!), including award-deserving hashbrowns.
giving directions to friends in remote locations
being there for friends in need.
exuding patience.
teaching to those who want to learn.
noticing where I've seen that actor/actress before.
following curiosity to its unnatural ends.
The first things people usually notice about me
My head is clean shaven - if I've shaved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Film: Another Earth, Waltz with Bashir, Syriana, Donnie Darko, Swingers, Pieces of April, Blade Runner

Shows: Battlestar Galactica, The Wire, South Park, 30 Rock

Books: The Colonial Present, Ghost Wars and all sorts of academic social theory sitting on my desk that I am trying to avoid.

Music: Just a taste - Manic Street Preachers, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Radiohead, Kula Shaker, House of Love, Sunscreem, Garbage, Githead, Thievery Corporation, Snow Patrol
The six things I could never do without
family
friends
kissing
mountains and rivers
music
well worn jeans
conversation
my library
lacrosse stick (and a ball)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
people's personalities
why humans fight wars
the taste of phenomenal food
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about. Or not.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you think intelligence is hot
you aren't just trying to find the next party
you know yourself
would like to know me