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41 Madison, WI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, I'm a nice person who tries to make the world a better place. I am educated and skilled but don't like defining myself by that.

I'm not looking for a clone of myself, but for someone who has enough in common to get along with and enough different to add some variety.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Too much to properly fill this out right now; but I'll get to it in the fullness of time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm quite good at lots of things and suck at plenty of others :) But here's a list of some of the good:
I'm very skilled at restoring historic houses (though I'm taking a well-deserved break from that now); planning inviting landscapes and gardens (I have two green thumbs and a few green fingers); caring for animals (I've worked at a few wildlife rescue centers in South America which is so rewarding!). I'm also a good teacher and take interesting photos... Hmmm, there's much more to me that that, but it's enough for now.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look and act younger than I am.... or my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Alfred Hitchcock, mysteries, foreign films, Woody Allen and lots more.
Shows: Flight of the Conchords, Harry and Paul, Absolutely Fabulous, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Arrested Development, Extras and nearly everything British. Plus Nature, Nova and cool PBS shows :)
Books: PG Wodehouse stories, The Vicar of Wakefield, Simenon mysteries.... I enjoy magazines and the New York Times, too.
Music: I love music... everything from reggae to Baroque, rock to jazz, 1950's romantic Cuban to 1960's bossa novas, "world music" to abstract, surreal things like Nina Hagen's Naturträne and Klaus Nomi's Cold Song (what category do they fit into?!?) So much good music in the world.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Good food. I love Thai food, Indian food, European food... Man, I love food!! When I travel I seek out places that let me cook my own food. I'm no chef, but I like to cook.
-Music and art! I like both abstract and realistic art.. just depends on the mood and style.
-Public things: museums, libraries, parks, performance centers, schools, NPR, WORT and public TV... I really like the whole idea of "public", communal things... even bubblers (okay, water fountains), which I enjoy drinking from :) I'm definitely not a right-wing, 'privatize-everything-to-make-a-profit' kind of guy. Public is GOOD!
-A nice pet to cuddle with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Travel plans; other countries and cultures; landscaping; the meaning of life; whether little mice really have tea with little frogs under the canopy of a big mushroom during a gentle, spring rainfall (okay, not really... but it is a pleasant thought); what to make, garden or do next. There's gotta be more, but that's some of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not out 'clubbing'.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not the best at following long, detailed recipes.
You should message me if
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Well, if you deem my profile to be at least somewhat intriguing, or find me visually inoffensive, or are simply curious if we could be compatible as friends, then you should contact me.