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29 F Ottawa, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:30am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Butch girl seeking folk for coffee chats, midnight vegan picnics and cuddles. I’m pansexual and identify somewhere on the poly spectrum.

Things I value these days include exploratory baking, empathy building and learning to adult, exposing myself to new music and fostering the reality I want to see. Self-expression is very important to me.

I like getting lost in a cup of tea or coffee while sitting on a bench or on the curb. Stuff like that centers me. Music is another important aid for my mental health.

I am kinky. I'm into impact play (receiving!) among other things. I'm mostly a bottom.

Dreams include backpacking around the world for months at a time. I would also love to earn money doing something satisfying but I have no idea what that would be.

I'm quieter by nature, comfortable sharing space in silence. Or chatting in ways that aren't forced. I can also play extrovert, though high-energy interactions can be fairly draining.
What I’m doing with my life
I just quit a geophysics company to work for a startup. There are really fun aspects to that kind of work, but despite that, being a for-profit software developer doesn't really occupy my heart.

Instead I enjoy organizing potlucks, designing recipes for baked vegan treats and trying them out, creating open-source software, reading radical lit on Tumblr and digesting the memoirs of foreign correspondents. I also like to peruse cookbooks at Chapters and snap photos of tempting recipes with my phone.

I find travelling amazing. Experiences I've had: being in Argentina on an expired visa; sitting by the side of the Seine in an impromptu picnic involving hundreds; going to a comedy club in South Africa; attending a large hacker conference in Las Vegas; losing my wallet with my only sources of money and ID in Las Vegas; being in one of the floats for Pride in Ottawa; going on stage in New York City to give a talk after Jello Biafra (The Dead Kennedys) put his ass to the mic; infiltrating a Tea Party rally in Washington DC with my then boyfriend; watching the sun set in Cuba; eating fresh vegetables from an incredible backyard garden in San Jose; going to an all-night rave in Montreal; seeing the Aurora Borealis in the Gaspé Peninsula; baking cookies at midnight with friends in Ottawa and hitting up Nuit Blanche; attending the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear in DC; stumbling on the Trans March in Philly; being interviewed for a documentary in Montreal.
I’m really good at
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
The first things people usually notice about me
If you go by instances of street harassment, the boobs and/or presence of a bra.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Every Man in this Village is a Liar Dancing in the Glory of Monsters So Damn Much Money Six Months in Sudan Free Culture Nevada Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle The Revolution Starts at Home The Feynman Lectures on Physics The Places in Between Two Whole Cakes Whipping Girl

Jiz Lee Ivan E. Coyote Paul Fussell Simon Winchester Lawrence Lessig Oscar Wilde Alison Bechdel Frank Lloyd Wright Audrey Lorde

The Fault in our Stars The Perks of Being a Wallflower Bridesmaids The Smartest Men in the Room The Act of Killing City of God C.R.A.Z.Y. Hackers Paths of Glory Death in Gaza Invisible War We Were Here How to Survive a Plague Spirited Away Short Term 12 La Grande Vadrouille Close Encounters of the Third Kind Alien...The intro to Up :'(

Basia Bulat Glenn Gloud Caravan Palace Ella Fitzgerald k. d. lang Underworld Stars Radiohead Pink Flloyd My Brightest Diamond Cowboys Fringants Sigur Ros Massive Attack telekaster John Coltrane Moonface Leonard Cohen Badly Drawn Boy Efterklang Nick Drake

TV / Podcasts / YouTube
The Agenda Welcome to Nightvale
Al Jazeera Good Eats Food Wishes

Large breakfasts as a Dinner Feta Goat Cheese Beavertails Butternut Squash Soup Pea Soup Pulled Pork Honey Crullers Watermelon Soft Serve Ice Cream Devilled Eggs Cheesecake Salt & Vinegar Chips Ketchup Chips Baklavas Shawarmas Greek Yoghurt

Innes & Gunn Leffe Brune Irish Coffee LatteCoffee Lemongrass Tea Ginger Tea Caesars

The Crash Pad Feminist Porn Queer Porn
The six things I could never do without
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows.
A smart phone with wifi.
Hiking boots.
Sports bras.

Honorable Mention:
Hitachi Magic Wand.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
*In my head* I'll go to bed early!

*Reality* Tumblr.
I’m looking for
  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If the idea of a low-key day with ice cream, terrible movies, cuddling, and blankets interests you.

You need to be okay with how masculine I am. I have a deep voice and almost always get read as male by strangers.