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29 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Genderqueer, Trans Woman, Woman

Genderqueer, Trans Woman, Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for hot chocolate adventures, midnight indoor picnics, vegan food making and nap dates. I'm pansexual and fall somewhere on the poly spectrum. I'm also kinky.

I spend much of my week writing code. The rest of my time involves flirting with experimental baking and writing queer essays. And laying in bed. So much laying in bed. I think about laying in bed a lot. And empathy. Mostly laying in bed though.

I'm quieter by nature and am comfortable sharing space in silence. I can also play extrovert when need be.

I like to peruse cookbooks at Chapters and snap photos of recipes with my phone.

INFJ. I'm on Tumblr.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life has been of a whirlwind as of late! The last year saw me quit my job to work for a startup, move, change my legal name, change my sex designation, and start hormone replacement therapy.

I find travelling amazing. I've been in Argentina illegaly, sat on the side of the Seine in Paris in an impromptu picnic involving hundreds, did a road trip around the US north east, wandered the streets of Joburg (South Africa), spoken at a hacker conference in New York City, infiltrated a Tea Party rally in Washington DC, enjoyed the sunset in Cuba, ate fresh veggies at a librarian's house in San Jose and an incredible sub in Atlantic City, saw the Aurora Borealis from the Gaspé Peninsula, attended an all-night rave in Montreal, baked cookies at midnight and hit up Nuit blanche in Ottawa, attended the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear, stumbled on the Trans March in Philladelphia, faked my way to interview top music execs in Toronto, backpacked around England and volunteered at Occupy Brighton, had my wallet with all my money stolen in Las Vegas while traveling alone, jet out of Venice in the middle of the night in a high speed boat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you go by street harassment, the boobs and/or presence of a bra.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Every Man in this Village is a Liar Dancing in the Glory of Monsters So Damn Much Money Six Months in Sudan Free Culture Nevada Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle The Revolution Starts at Home The Feynman Lectures on Physics The Places in Between Two Whole Cakes Whipping Girl The titles you find on the communal bookshelf of a youth hostel.

Jiz Lee Ivan E. Coyote Paul Fussell Simon Winchester Lawrence Lessig Oscar Wilde Alison Bechdel Frank Lloyd Wright Audre Lorde

The Perks of Being a Wallflower Obvious Child Bridesmaids Koyaanisqatsi The Smartest Men in the Room The Act of Killing City of God C.R.A.Z.Y. Hackers Sneakers Paths of Glory Death in Gaza Invisible War We Were Here How to Survive a Plague Spirited Away Short Term 12 La Grande Vadrouille Close Encounters of the Third Kind Alien...The intro to Up :'(

Basia Bulat Glenn Gloud Caravan Palace Ella Fitzgerald k. d. lang Underworld Stars Radiohead Pink Flloyd My Brightest Diamond Cowboys Fringants Sigur Ros Massive Attack telekaster John Coltrane Moonface Leonard Cohen Badly Drawn Boy Efterklang Nick Drake Yoko Kanno Joe Hisaishi

TV / Podcasts / YouTube
The Agenda Al Jazeera Good Eats Food Wishes PBS' Frontline

Large breakfasts as a Dinner Feta Goat Cheese Beavertails Butternut Squash Soup Pea Soup Cream of Anything Soups Pulled Pork Honey Crullers Watermelon Soft Serve Ice Cream Devilled Eggs Cheesecake Salt & Vinegar Chips Ketchup Chips Baklavas Shawarmas Greek Yoghurt Kraft Dinner Burgers with Caramelized Onions, Roasted Peppers, Goat Cheese & Bacon Greasy Pizza Pickles

Innes & Gunn Leffe Brune Irish Coffee Coffee Lemongrass Tea Ginger Tea Caesars Amarula

The Crash Pad Feminist Porn Queer Porn
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows.
Smart phone.
Hiking boots.
Sports bras.
Hitachi Magic Wand.

Honorable Mention:
Endless pictures of corgis.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*In my head* I'll go to bed early!

*Reality* Tumblr.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If the idea of a low-key evening with junk food and terrible movies interests you. Or walking down Somerset. Or trying out new teas somewhere.

You need to be okay with how masculine I am. I have a deep voice, a perpetual five o'clock shadow, and always get read as male by strangers.

Straight cisgender men asking rude questions will be openly made fun of or ignored, depending on how much fun I want to have.