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fruzztacular

29 F Ottawa, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for folk interested in coffee adventures, midnight picnics, vegan baking, and cuddles. I identify as a transdyke though am pansexual. I land somewhere on the poly spectrum. I'm also kinky!

I spend my days coding. I fill the rest of my time with experimental baking, new music, writing about queer stuff, and thinking about empathy building.

I'm quieter by nature and am comfortable sharing space in silence. I can also play extrovert when need be.

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life has been of a whirlwind as of late! The last year saw me quit my job to work for a startup, move twice, change my legal name, and start hormone replacement therapy.

I touched upon what I do in the previous section, but in addition to that, I enjoy organizing potlucks, reading memoirs, and writing open-source software. I like to peruse cookbooks at Chapters and snap photos of recipes with my phone.

I find travelling amazing. I've been in Argentina illegaly, sat on the side of the Seine in Paris in an impromptu picnic involving hundreds, did a road trip around the US north east, wandered the streets of Joburg (South Africa), spoken at a hacker conference in New York City, infiltrated a Tea Party rally in Washington DC, enjoyed the sunset in Cuba, ate fresh veggies at a librarian's house in San Jose and an incredible sub in Atlantic City, saw the Aurora Borealis from the Gaspé Peninsula, attended an all-night rave in Montreal, baked cookies at midnight and hit up Nuit blanche in Ottawa, attended the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear, stumbled on the Trans March in Philladelphia, faked my way to interview top music execs in Toronto, backpacked around England and volunteered at Occupy Brighton, had my wallet with all my money stolen in Las Vegas while traveling alone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you go by street harassment, the boobs and/or presence of a bra.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books
Every Man in this Village is a Liar Dancing in the Glory of Monsters So Damn Much Money Six Months in Sudan Free Culture Nevada Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle The Revolution Starts at Home The Feynman Lectures on Physics The Places in Between Two Whole Cakes Whipping Girl The titles you find on the communal bookshelf of a youth hostel.

People
Jiz Lee Ivan E. Coyote Paul Fussell Simon Winchester Lawrence Lessig Oscar Wilde Alison Bechdel Frank Lloyd Wright Audrey Lorde

Movies
The Perks of Being a Wallflower Bridesmaids Koyaanisqatsi The Smartest Men in the Room The Act of Killing City of God C.R.A.Z.Y. Hackers Sneakers Paths of Glory Death in Gaza Invisible War We Were Here How to Survive a Plague Spirited Away Short Term 12 La Grande Vadrouille Close Encounters of the Third Kind The Fault in our Stars Alien...The intro to Up :'(

Music
Basia Bulat Glenn Gloud Caravan Palace Ella Fitzgerald k. d. lang Underworld Stars Radiohead Pink Flloyd My Brightest Diamond Cowboys Fringants Sigur Ros Massive Attack telekaster John Coltrane Moonface Leonard Cohen Badly Drawn Boy Efterklang Nick Drake

TV / Podcasts / YouTube
The Agenda Al Jazeera Good Eats Food Wishes

Food
Large breakfasts as a Dinner Feta Goat Cheese Beavertails Butternut Squash Soup Pea Soup Pulled Pork Honey Crullers Watermelon Soft Serve Ice Cream Devilled Eggs Cheesecake Salt & Vinegar Chips Ketchup Chips Baklavas Shawarmas Greek Yoghurt Kraft Dinner Burgers with Caramelized Onions, Roasted Peppers, Goat Cheese & Bacon

Beverages
Innes & Gunn Leffe Brune Irish Coffee Coffee Lemongrass Tea Ginger Tea Caesars

Porn
The Crash Pad Feminist Porn Queer Porn
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows.
Smart phone.
Hiking boots.
Tea.
Sports bras.
Pictures of corgis.

Honorable Mention:
Hitachi Magic Wand.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*In my head* I'll go to bed early!

*Reality* Tumblr.
You should message me if
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If the idea of a low-key evening with junk food and terrible movies interests you. Or smelling new teas to try out at a shop. Or something involving cuddles. Actually, anything involving cuddles.

You need to be okay with how masculine I am. I have a deep voice and always get read as male by strangers. I wouldn't respond to unicorn hunters, but I somehow doubt they'd contact me in the first place. :p