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45 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 8
Asian, White
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kids and might want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have rewritten my profile once again, as I have been getting too many responses (mostly from the wrong kind of women).

But first, a word from our sponsor: If you are looking for the same one-dimensional, boring, "every guy out there", you may now proceed to the next profile. You will not find it here. If you are more than 25 miles from SF, I will not respond to your emails/winks/likes/etc (unless you are really hot and come to the city often). Nothing against the "burbs". But, it's just not my thing.

Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming: I lead a very busy and full life. Therefore, my time is very limited, and I do not have the time to date. However, that being said, meeting cool, fun, like-minded women for good times is always of interest. I don't waste time emailing or texting back and forth like a high-schooler. I prefer a few introductory emails/texts, then meeting in person over coffee or a drink to determine chemistry.

What is my "type" of woman you ask? A woman who is truly open-minded, and can easily border hop, or transition from the ballgame to the symphony in the same day. Personally, I really love to get out and travel and experience new things, new foods, new places, and new people. In my world, life is a constant voyage of adventure and fun times. And, although I eat healthy on a daily basis, I also take advantage of my food and wine knowledge and indulge from time to time.

A little bit about me:

- Passionate, even tempered
- Free-spirited, open-minded, adventurous
- Unpredictable, exciting, never boring
- Charismatic, charming, playful, sometimes naughty
- Street smart, intellectual, polished, great conversationalist; not stuffy, stuck up, or judgmental
- Alpha male; don't take "----" from anyone
- Athletic, strong; but also have an emotional quotient
- Exercises regularly, stays in shape; but sometimes staying in bed isn't always a bad thing
- Mature; but have tons of energy and enthusiasm
- Love to laugh; but knows when to get serious
- Not religious; but definitely spiritual (my temple is people, love, music, and nature)
- No drama; have my s--- together and use it well

As for the rest, you will just have to get to know me in person.

If you also fit these characteristics, are multidimensional, extroverted, cool, love excitement and fun in your life, and think you can keep up with me; then say hello. I don't bite (unless I am asked to, of course).
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying and living life to the fullest; traveling, music, food, culture, arts, and people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
diffusing a bomb in less than 30 seconds, hand to hand combat, expert marksmanship, throwing bad guys off a train, driving a tank through Leningrad, high stakes baccarat...oh wait, that's James Bond. (actually I am good at a couple of those things, but you will have to guess which ones)

thriving amongst chaos, cool under fire, figuring things out, getting things done, intelligence, strength (physically and inner fortitude), engaging personality and conversation, finding new travel destinations, navigating new cities/countries without a map or directions, navigating busy streets or racetracks, parallel parking, conveying needs/wants, finding adventures and fun activities, multi-tasking, selecting the best wine and food, and generally enjoying all that life has to offer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my energy (positive, of course), eyes, smile, exotic look, confidence, personality, easy-going demeanor, wittiness, and sense of humor. I can talk to anyone about almost anything (except quantum physics).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
all types of fiction and non-fiction, all types of music (except country), Asian foods, Italian, French, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, laughter, warmth, respect, travel, and dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Conscientiously thinking about what I am doing in this moment, and planning ahead. To be honest, I am more of a doer than a thinker.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. Could be a live band, art gallery opening, dancing, good food, cocktails or wine, or getting out of town in a car or plane.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes secretly wish I had Anthony Bourdain's job.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a lust for life and are looking for an exciting, cool, fun guy who can show you this city like no one else. You live less than 25 miles away (or come to the city often), and love to have fun and good times.