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45 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:39am
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an SF native, compassionate, ambitious, loyal, purposeful, practical, educated, wise, confident, sexy, strong outside, sweet inside, funny, attracted to art, music, beauty, and body physics. I have a sense of responsibility, but am always up for a weekend road trip, hopping on a plane, or just about anything adventurous.

An ideal man subscribes to the concept of "Wen Wu". The concept of "Wen Wu" can be summarized as the "the brilliant, cultured man who also happens to know the fine art of throwing a roundhouse kick to an opponent's head - but figures out a way not to have to throw it."

By the way, I am a ESTP in Briggs-Meyers terms.

You have distinct preference of Extraversion over Introversion (67%)
You have moderate preference of Sensing over Intuition (25%)
You have slight preference of Thinking over Feeling (12%)
You have moderate preference of Perceiving over Judging (56%)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying life, while doing so in a generally responsible manner towards the earth, others, and society in general. Traveling and seeing as much of the world as possible. Constantly growing, learning, and self-improving. Being a great father to my daughter. And, hopefully an awesome partner to an equally awesome woman someday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
diffusing a bomb in less than 30 seconds, hand to hand combat, expert marksmanship, throwing bad guys off a train, driving a tank through Leningrad, high stakes baccarat...oh wait, that's James Bond. (actually I am good at a couple of those things, but you will have to guess which ones)

thriving amongst chaos, cool under fire, figuring things out, getting things done, intelligence, strength (physically and inner fortitude), engaging personality and conversation, finding new travel destinations, navigating new cities/countries without a map or directions, navigating busy streets or racetracks, parallel parking, conveying needs/wants, tactfulness, thoughtfulness, having fun and getting everyone involved, finding adventures and fun activities, multi-tasking, selecting the best wine and food, enjoying all that life has to offer, and so much'll just have to find out when we talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my energy (positive, of course), eyes, smile, exotic look, confidence, personality, easy-going demeanor, wittiness, and sense of humor. I can talk to anyone about almost anything (except quantum physics).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
all types of fiction and non-fiction, all types of music (except country), Asian foods, Italian, French, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, laughter, warmth, respect, travel, and dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Conscientiously thinking about what I am doing in this moment, and planning ahead. To be honest, I am more of a doer than a thinker.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. Could be a live band, wine tasting, art gallery opening, dancing, staying in with a movie and bottle of wine, or getting out of town in a car or plane.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open, so ask me anything and I will give a straight answer. Actually, I sometimes secretly wish I had Anthony Bourdain's job.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have an eternal smile, bewitching eyes, and easy laugh. You have a lust for life and tons of energy to boot (hope you can keep up). You are feminine, outgoing, versatile, confident, sophisticated, smart, easy on the eyes, sexy (and other people think so too), easy-going, strong outside, sweet inside, independent, open-minded, non-judgmental, live in the Bay Area, and have time for a wonderful guy in your life.