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38 F El Mirage, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:10am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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These things seem to be important:
I smoke, I drink, I am non-confrontational, and have average intelligence. I have limited drama and don't take life too serious, I like the live in the moment concept.

I think it is easiest said that I am looking for:
The difference between need and want... I take care of what I need in life. But... I want someone to share my time with. I am not looking for a provider and I have no intention of being a sugar mama. Please be mature if you are younger and not too prudish if you are older. I am 38... and will not be having more children, another deal breaker for a lot and a bonus for the rest.

I am from the East Coast (the White Mountains of New Hampshire... google images) and new to AZ. Being from the East Coast means that I am too open, probably too loud, probably too hyper for most... I like to kid myself and think that it means, I tell the truth even if it is not pretty, you won't have a problem hearing me when I do speak, and I am full of energy! ;)

This is my first summer in AZ and I have no idea how you could live with out a pool. I work from home and love it, oh wow... did you hear that? I enjoy my job... I will b*tch about it from time to time but I assure you it is limited and for the most part I love what I do. I struggle with meeting people, simply because of logistics.

Let the journey of self-discovery continue! I spent the previous years of my life living for my family and now I am single, just single not bitter... If you ask I will tell you he found a new toy, he regretted it after it was too late and I moved on.

I have learned that I love to smile, and am really good at with the right company. I also love to laugh and even if it is at myself. I love not cooking, my mom does that. I also love not dusting, my gram does that. :) We have a house motto, "It takes all pieces of the unit to make it work..."

I am NOT afraid to meet or talk on the phone...but I also don't mind some e-mails, we are grown ups... I am sure that I am not the only one you are talking to; so if you would like to chat a bit and then meet if we feel like it is worth it then I am up for that.

I want to date and actually will be dating, as in meeting different people and getting to know them and then seeing where it goes... if anywhere!!! I will respond even if I am not interested if you take the time to type an actual sentence, I will give you enough respect to write back even if it is to wish you good luck!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved my mother and my grandmother to AZ and they are living with me.

I finally understand a man doing projects around the house. I have my mom and my gram living with me and they see me as the "man" lol. I must say when they ask for something to be done, I will do it and no, I don't need them there offering to help me every step of the way! I chuckle now, because I get it... I get why it drives a man crazy when he putting together a computer desk and the wife says, you should do this or that... I have done what most men have wanted to do but haven't dared... put all the pieces and tools down... and said, "there ya go, have at it... since you know how to do it... you can do it and I will go back to work now." lol

I hope you can see that I am not wanting to be the man, but I have learned how to be a better woman. ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people smile... even when life gets in the way :)
I am a strong woman, with that being said,
I am the woman that, in my regular... day to day life...
is going to make sure you have a drink that is full
is going to make sure your clothes are put away
is going to greet you with a hug and a kiss and tell you that I missed you or that I am happy to see you, once you're mine.
is going to just know what tool you will need when working on a project and will have it waiting for you ie the correct wrench when working on a car... once I see what we are doing then I think ahead naturally.
is going to know when you have had a long day and don't want to do anything
is going to text you randomly to make you smile
is going to wait and change plans because you wanted/needed
is going to shave daily for herself
is going to wear your favorite color toenail polish
is going to be ready to go at the drop of a hat and enjoy wherever we are going
is going to talk to you about anything that upsets me
is going to allow space if and when you need space

yeah... I am THAT girl... tell me, what kind of man are you?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The hair... they always comment on the hair... it is all good I love my hair, even in the morning ;) lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a book once... Victor Frankel, "Man's search for meaning." I think it was for critical thinking, you know... one of the first college classes you ever take. I also did the 50 shades thing, just to say I had read a book... I thought they were terribly written. I liked the concept well enough but really? can we pick a different phrase other than, "her inner goddess..." I just never got into reading, I am a talker and more of a hands on type of person. I like to meet new people and hear their stories.

I am currently watching more tv and movies, simply to be able to talk to people that ask me if I have ever seen something. I get bored easily and sitting still watching a 2 hour movie is a daunting task for me.

When Harry Met Sally, The Shawshank Redemption,The Other Woman, Five Year Engagement, The Great Gatsby, Ferris Bueller's Day Off

Game of Thrones fan and have re-watched the series twice.
I also like:
How I met your mother
Two Broke Girls
Big Bang Theory

I love music, pretty much all of it... I struggle with rap and honky tonk country. I am not a good music trivia person, I never know who sings it or what the title is!
Top 40, classic rock, 70's, New Country, really depends on the mood Norah Jones, Pink, James Blunt, Kattie Perry, Lake Street Dive.

I love most food and am always willing to try new palate inspirations. I am ashamed to say that I have not had any authentic Mexican food yet. :( I do not care for green peppers or olives. But some of my favorites are steak, medium rare, baked potato with butter and sour cream... sushi, Chinese, Italian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I am supposed to take life more serious... so far the answer is no... Just smile and wave... it will all be alright. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on the patio or in the pool at home. Having a drink with the radio playing, chatting with my mom or my gram.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The curls are real but the color is out of a box. lol
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to! You have looked at my pics, so obviously there is at least some attraction. You are a smoker or actually dated a smoker and that worked for you, that seems to be a big issue for a lot of non smokers lol. I generally date men taller than me, I am 5'7" and older than me I am 38, that do not want more children. If you think we might click write me, I usually won't write first even if I am interested.