I smoke, I drink, I am non-confrontational, and have average intelligence. I have limited drama and don't take life too serious, I like the live in the moment concept.
I think it is easiest said that I am looking for:
The difference between need and want... I take care of what I need in life. But... I want someone to share my time with. I am not looking for a provider and I have no intention of being a sugar mama. Please be mature if you are younger and not too prudish if you are older. I am 38... and will not be having more children, another deal breaker for a lot and a bonus for the rest.
I am from the East Coast (the White Mountains of New Hampshire... google images) and new to AZ. Being from the East Coast means that I am too open, probably too loud, probably too hyper for most... I like to kid myself and think that it means, I tell the truth even if it is not pretty, you won't have a problem hearing me when I do speak, and I am full of energy! ;)
This is my first summer in AZ and I have no idea how you could live with out a pool. I work from home and love it, oh wow... did you hear that? I enjoy my job... I will b*tch about it from time to time but I assure you it is limited and for the most part I love what I do. I struggle with meeting people, simply because of logistics.
Let the journey of self-discovery continue! I spent the previous years of my life living for my family and now I am single, just single not bitter... If you ask I will tell you he found a new toy, he regretted it after it was too late and I moved on.
I have learned that I love to smile, and am really good at with the right company. I also love to laugh and even if it is at myself. I love not cooking, my mom does that. I also love not dusting, my gram does that. :) We have a house motto, "It takes all pieces of the unit to make it work..."
I am NOT afraid to meet or talk on the phone...but I also don't mind some e-mails, we are grown ups... I am sure that I am not the only one you are talking to; so if you would like to chat a bit and then meet if we feel like it is worth it then I am up for that.
I want to date and actually will be dating, as in meeting different people and getting to know them and then seeing where it goes... if anywhere!!! I will respond even if I am not interested if you take the time to type an actual sentence, I will give you enough respect to write back even if it is to wish you good luck!