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36 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a happily married, well adjusted, educated, polite, respectful, easy going guy who is in an open relationship with a wonderful woman. We have discovered that we really enjoy meeting new people and makig new friends. We have been in "the scene" for a few years nowand have grown a lot as individuals and as a couple as a result of our experimentation. We have decided that the next frontier that we would like to tackle is the exploration of poly-amory. So here I am. I have read quite a bit and have a theoretical knowledge, but now it is time to test my learning with practical application. From what I have seen and heard this is a great site for meeting other like minded people.
What I’m doing with my life
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Continually working to improve as a husband and father. Also working to find a career that will provide more than a paycheck. I have discovered that money isn't everything and that I need to have a more meaningful purpose. Finding it and pursuing it is a primary focus for me at the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving. I enjoy complicated problems that require creative solutions. So anything that involves logistics is right up my alley (event planning, vacation planning, work schedules, etc)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Excellent question! I have no clue.

I will have to start asking people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Gladiator, Avengers, Snatch, Memento, Braveheart, Last of the Mohicans, and Crimson Tide.

Shows: Game of Thrones, Band of Brothers, Big Bang Theory, Firefly, Survivor, and Top Chef.

Books: Graphic Novels (Locke & Key, Invincible, anything from Marvel), Game of Thrones, Memory Sorrow & Thorn, and Tom Clancy.

Music: Reel Big Fish, Streetlight Manifesto, Flogging Molly, John Williams, James Horner, and

Food: Discovering Food Carts!!! Mexican Food and authentic Italian. If it has big bold flavors I will probably like it. If it has some spice to it too, even better. A good Hamburger or steak is hard to beat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Sex
4) A creative outlet (cooking, brewing, brain teasers, etc)
5) Reading material
6) Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find job fulfillment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am most likely at home reading a book, watching a movie, or surfing the net. Ideally, that is only every other week. The other Fridays I would like to be out on the town catching a movie, dancing, at a party, or just haning at a friends house playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't really have any secrets. It takes too much of a tole on a person to hide, compartmentalize, and decieve. If you have a question, feel free to ask. With that said, I don't go around spouting off about myself. This whole home page has been a challenge :)
You should message me if
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If you are insterested in making a new friend that may or may not lead to more down the road. Of course, you must be okay with the fact that I am in an open relationship and that I have family obligations that must come first.