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43 F Columbus, OH

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Last Online
Yesterday – 1:37pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French, Bengali, German, Sign Language

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My self-summary
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I'm interested in meeting fellow geeks/fans/fiber folk/etc. for hanging out! I'm particularly interested in expanding what has become a somewhat limited social circle...

I sing in two different choirs, a women's chorus and a unitarian church choir. I work doing research in child language development. I go to 2 or 3 science fiction cons a year, and help run my favorite one, WisCon, which focuses on feminism and gender in science fiction. I knit, a lot.

I am intense, laid back, and geeky
What I’m doing with my life
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slacking much more than I should. Not going on the job market again, though I might need to switch to a hard money job in the department at some point. Trying to be mindful of balance and happiness. Deciding that Columbus might be a good place to settle down.
I’m really good at
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Crafty things. Cooking indian food. Cooking in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, or so I hear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nevada Barr's mysteries. Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series. Anything by Bujold. or Le Guin. Ben Aaronovitch. Julie Czerneda. Charles de Lint's short stories. Neil Gaiman. Philip Pullman. China Mieville. Sarah Zettel. John M. Ford. Rosemary Kirstein

Movies: Truly Madly Deeply. The Princess Bride. Anything by Pixar. The Shawshank Redemption. LOTR. Room with a View. Dangerous Liaisons. Better than Chocolate. Star Wars--but not the "special editions". Moulin Rouge. The Prestige. The Marvel Cinematic Universe (with the exception of Iron Man II and the Hulk movies. GotG was OK but I probably won't see it multiple times).

Shows: Homicide: Life on the Street. Castle. Fringe. Sarah Connor Chronicles. Pushing Daisies. White Collar. The Middleman. Southland. Buffy: The Vampire Slayer. Angel. Firefly. Farscape. NCIS (early seasons only). Slings & Arrows. Orphan Black. Sleepy Hollow.

Music: Matt Nathanson. Janelle Monae. The Decemberists. Regina Spektor. Indigo Girls. Dar Williams. Crowded House. Kristen Hall. Afro Celt Sound System. Ani DiFranco. Garbage. Great Big Sea.

Foods: Sushi. Vietnamese food. Thai food. Regional Indian food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses. A high speed internet connection. My cat. Fresh ginger. Knitting. Farmers markets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home with my cat and internet connection. I'd like to change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 29–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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