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44 Gainesville, FL Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:19am
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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French, Bengali, German, Sign Language
My self-summary
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I'm interested in meeting fellow geeks/fans/fiber folk/etc. for hanging out! I just moved to Gainesville so don't really know anyone yet.

I used to sing in two different choirs in Ohio, a small choir that sings interesting music and a unitarian church choir. I'm looking for places to sing here. I work doing research in child language development. I go to 2 or 3 science fiction cons a year, and help run my favorite one, WisCon, which focuses on feminism and gender in science fiction. I knit, a lot.

I am intense, laid back, and geeky
What I’m doing with my life
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slacking much more than I should. Being happy that it looks like my job will become a hard money job rather than grant dependent. Trying to be mindful of balance and happiness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Crafty things. Cooking indian food. Cooking in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, or so I hear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nevada Barr's mysteries. Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series. Anything by Bujold. or Le Guin. Ben Aaronovitch. Julie Czerneda. Charles de Lint's short stories. Neil Gaiman. Philip Pullman. China Mieville. Sarah Zettel. John M. Ford. Rosemary Kirstein

Movies: Truly Madly Deeply. The Princess Bride. Nearly anything by Pixar. The Shawshank Redemption. LOTR. Room with a View. Dangerous Liaisons. Better than Chocolate. Star Wars--but not the "special editions". Moulin Rouge. The Prestige. The Marvel Cinematic Universe (with the exception of Iron Man II and the Hulk movies. GotG was OK but I probably won't see it multiple times). The Hunger Games movies.

Shows: Homicide: Life on the Street. Castle. Fringe. Sarah Connor Chronicles. Pushing Daisies. White Collar. The Middleman. Southland. Buffy: The Vampire Slayer. Angel. Firefly. Farscape. NCIS (early seasons only). Slings & Arrows. Orphan Black. Sleepy Hollow. Agent Carter. Outlander.

Music: Dessa. Fall Out Boy. Matt Nathanson. Janelle Monae. The Decemberists. Regina Spektor. Indigo Girls. Dar Williams. Crowded House. Kristen Hall. Afro Celt Sound System. Ani DiFranco. Garbage. Great Big Sea.

Foods: Sushi. Vietnamese food. Thai food. Regional Indian food.

Podcasts: Welcome to Night Vale
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses. A high speed internet connection. My cat. Fresh ginger. Knitting. Farmers markets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home with my cat and internet connection. I'd like to change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum right now, probably demi.
You should message me if
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We're at least fairly compatible on % friend, and not too high on % enemy. I prefer longer form communication over single sentences.