Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost. I'm initially painfully awkward, slow to warm,
and overly cerebral. Get past that and you'll never believe that I
was ever "that weird guy". Lol.
Can someone explain why most girls think the only two options
1: commit to marriage prior to meeting or
2: one night stand?
I've noticed a lot of MBTI personalities here. I'm ENTJ. Known as
the "Field Marshall". It's a perfect description. "I am the hammer
and the anvil, you WILL be made useful". Lol. I'm type A-. Meaning,
I like order and structure. Though will toss it all out the window
for a more efficient and effective method.
Frank, decisive, assume leadership readily. Quickly see illogical
and inefficient procedures and policies, develop and implement
comprehensive systems to solve organizational problems. Enjoy
long-term planning and goal setting. Usually well informed, well
read, enjoy expanding their knowledge and passing it on to others.
Forceful in presenting their ideas.
I am a tattooed, well-traveled, and educated professional. I intend
to continue all. Always hard to answer the "where are you from"
question. Love to discuss ideas with someone who is cognitively
limber. Hobbies include watching movies and enjoying local and
cultural events. Musically I am all over the place though I tend to
lean towards rock and rap. I have many pictures and stories from my
very fun life. Just ask.
I don't have a "type". I want simple things in a relationship. ie.
genuine desire to spend time together, good conversation, ability
to handle sarcasm, someone who can laugh at my jokes cause I think
they are funny, doing something with their life, supportive, and
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My job often reminds me of 2 movies. Alice in Wonderland and/or
Natural Born Killers. Jealous?
The stories I have from dating are straight out of joke books and
usually have me saying WTF?! REALLY?! My friends and co-workers
always enjoy. Perfection? Yes. Perfect for me. Educated? Yes. I
need to be able to hold a conversation and consider perspectives. I
am often either criticized or sought out for being very cerebral. I
am at times awkward. Definitely shy at first.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Walking around with a goofy smile
- people have often said I look suspicious cause I smile too much
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes or my nerdiness. Depending how we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fight club (though I can't talk about), any music with heavy bass
(yes dubstep recently), any psychological themed movie, hmmm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my closest friends
my awesome experiences from traveling
I am not really materialistic, so I guess I will have to think
about 6 things I value
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future. I am always planning where the next step is and where I
want to end up.
That and everything. I think too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My current job has me off Friday and Saturday. Typically will get
out with a friend for a drink though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm terribly needle-phobic.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
No scripts to follow.
Hang out and see what develops.
You are near, find me interesting/attractive, want to get together
to know each other. If you have a Disney pass and wanna waste a day
Don't expect a traditional "date". That's presumptuous. We have
never met. Let's meet somewhere low key, chat, and decide if
there's a vibe? Note my first questions.
I rarely make the first move. If you're interested, say hi.
You should not contact me:
1) you are further than 30 minutes, it's just not gonna
2) you are just looking to be entertained when you get bored
3: you don't expect marriage commitment prior to meeting
4: you don't associate wanting sex and one night stands (like you
don't want me to think you just looking for a walking credit
* I don't mind chat/flirt buddies but lets define as that up-front.
If your schedule, distance, and/or responsibilities are going to
make meeting or hanging out regularly near impossible, I can't
build a relationship.
Please, re-read your profile. I know you think you're expressing
strength and confidence but a lot of guys hear 1) high maintenance
and/or 2) "I'm a biotch!" (said in my best white trash country
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