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37 • Gainesville, FL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 7:08pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.71m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Can someone explain why most girls think the only two options are
1: commit to marriage prior to meeting or
2: one night stand?
I've noticed a lot of MBTI personalities here. I'm ENTJ. Known as the "Field Marshall". It's a perfect description. "I am the hammer and the anvil, you WILL be made useful". Lol. I'm type A-. Meaning, I like order and structure. Though will toss it all out the window for a more efficient and effective method.
Frank, decisive, assume leadership readily. Quickly see illogical and inefficient procedures and policies, develop and implement comprehensive systems to solve organizational problems. Enjoy long-term planning and goal setting. Usually well informed, well read, enjoy expanding their knowledge and passing it on to others. Forceful in presenting their ideas.
I am a tattooed, well-traveled, and educated professional. I intend to continue all. Always hard to answer the "where are you from" question. Love to discuss ideas with someone who is cognitively limber. Hobbies include watching movies and enjoying local and cultural events. Musically I am all over the place though I tend to lean towards rock and rap. I have many pictures and stories from my very fun life. Just ask.
I don't have a "type". I want simple things in a relationship. ie. genuine desire to spend time together, good conversation, ability to handle sarcasm, someone who can laugh at my jokes cause I think they are funny, doing something with their life, supportive, and well-balanced.
The stories I have from dating are straight out of joke books and usually have me saying WTF?! REALLY?! My friends and co-workers always enjoy. Perfection? Yes. Perfect for me. Educated? Yes. I need to be able to hold a conversation and consider perspectives. I am often either criticized or sought out for being very cerebral. I am at times awkward. Definitely shy at first.
Walking around with a goofy smile
- people have often said I look suspicious cause I smile too much
my closest friends
my awesome experiences from traveling
I am not really materialistic, so I guess I will have to think about 6 things I value
That and everything. I think too much.
Hang out and see what develops.
You are near, find me interesting/attractive, want to get together to know each other. If you have a Disney pass and wanna waste a day there.
Don't expect a traditional "date". That's presumptuous. We have never met. Let's meet somewhere low key, chat, and decide if there's a vibe? Note my first questions.
I rarely make the first move. If you're interested, say hi.
You should not contact me:
1) you are further than 30 minutes, it's just not gonna happen
2) you are just looking to be entertained when you get bored
3: you don't expect marriage commitment prior to meeting
4: you don't associate wanting sex and one night stands (like you don't want me to think you just looking for a walking credit card).
* I don't mind chat/flirt buddies but lets define as that up-front. If your schedule, distance, and/or responsibilities are going to make meeting or hanging out regularly near impossible, I can't build a relationship.
Please, re-read your profile. I know you think you're expressing strength and confidence but a lot of guys hear 1) high maintenance and/or 2) "I'm a biotch!" (said in my best white trash country voice).
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