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57 M San Marcos, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:54am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a no drama guy, with two beautiful daughters. I like all kinds of music, except country and misogynistic rap. I ride a sport bike (Yamaha R-1) and like to ride on an occasional Sunday. I am a life-long learner... I look up anything I don't know (I love my smart phone) and can converse on just about any topic. I am a internet marketing guy, but spent 10 years as an R&D Technician; I fabricated prototypes. That means that I have lots of tools and know how to use them. I can dress up but usually wear jeans. (I actually own both a tux and white dinner jacket, but have not had cause to wear them recently. I am a affectionate guy and like to cuddle and hold hands. I am a good listener, so if you need to talk I don't mind.

I have been reading about serial daters, and thought I would add this note to my profile: I am not in a hurry to be in a relationship. I am not a serial dater, and I feel complete without a woman. Having said that, I prefer to be in a settled relationship to being single. I have had two long term relationships in my life, and I was happiest then. I did learn that it is worthwhile to make sure that the person you are in a relationship with is a good match. Until I find someone who is a good match, I am happy to be here on OK Cupid and have a date now and then if it seems right. If I contact you it means something about you seems right. But the only way to find out is to meet.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a good dad, good son, and good friend. working hard on my business and helping other businesses succeed. Living, loving, and making a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a quirky sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Get Shorty, Pulp fiction, 50 First Dates, All of Harry Potter, sushi, fillet mignon, seared ahi, John le Carre, Casablanca, Chuck (the series), Burn Notice, Bones, dive bars, intimate venue rock concerts
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can't think of anything i couldn't live without except food, air, water, a place to live and freedom to think.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a beer somewhere fun or maybe at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You will have to ask me that...
You should message me if
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You like guys that will make you laugh, think, and relax.