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29 Oakland, CA Genderqueer, Woman

Genderqueer, Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:45pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Arabic (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me: genderqueer (down for whomever right), intersectional feminist, krip, anti-capitalist, teacher, anti-racist, and proud adopted cat parent. I'm told I'm Drake...pretty much daily. I always have snax on me

I'm trying to reduce my time typing as its not the best for my neck so if I message it'll likely be a " hey let's hang," not because I didn't read your profile but because I liked it and would rather chat or meet then do a long initial message :)

New tattoos, nose piercing, hairlines, yay.

alsooo, i have a room available if you know folks looking for apartments/rooms....sooooo hit me up if youre interested in living w/me and my magikal kat OMAR.

one time i got into a grimes concert and she invited me on-stage as she liked my pink leggings and polka-dotted backwards romper (go-to look though always down for new clothes if youre looking to pass yours onto a cutie/I fit in anything) and then I fell off.

Things I can do: make random foods, find music events and other happenings and find food especially free food at art gallery shows, bike people, stories and good films/music videos/books and a little about everything/trivia/the invention of the ferris wheel..

also, folx tell me i'm really weird but as long as you don't mind being round crazy me w/a bunch of disabilities, then let's get down n boogie.
What I’m doing with my life
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Self-care; teaching aka facilitating; organizing if well; pizza/ginger ale (yes, i'm doing this with my life); pop culture/art/music/screens/writing; seek parks/animals/sun/different events at times; embracing my tempurpedic bed & pillows & soft blanket, sleeping, sleeping, n watching netflix//hbogo...especially if i get sick & it's in the background or pandora or my great playlists when doing chores
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-making bad/good/long/short jokes/impressions (basically, making bad puns n cheezzzyyy as fvk jokes)
-band/dj pun names
-spooning with animals or humxns while watching stuff or not watching stuff (including mandy moore movies...saved alright y'know?)
-Saying ah or sticking out my tongue and going bpppppp for a while
-i've been called creative and told i give firm massages by humxns and non-humxn animal companions from the MANY different types I've gotten for my bad back/neck
The first things people usually notice about me
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i look like someone that people know or some persn in some band which can get me free drinks at shows/place, or some actor (recent ones: always drake; cillian murphy in the opening sequence of 28 days later; Zachary Quinto aka the new spock esp when given the sideburn v's; skinny rick ross; bassist from the teeth; any member of passion pit)

or my bubble butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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book stuff: pedagogy of the oppressed; i won't learn from you; the revolution will Not be Funded; the new jim crow; in persuasian nation; anything by audre lorde, nabokov, angela davis, james baldwin, vonnegut, burgess, alice walker, sherman alexie, toni morrison, dostoevsky, poe, bell hooks, ralph ellison, malcolm X, critical science/gender/race/Sexuality/Disability Studies, leslie marmon silko, nikki giovanni, chinua achebe, ngugi wa thiong'o, tim o'brien, ishmael, mark strand, junot diaz

movies: pretty much any bollywood, night on earth, la mala educación, Ônibus 174, born in flames, and mostly anything with fassbender, lupita, cillian murphy, winona ryder, michael b. jordan, or idris elba, and the standards: office space, amores perros, paradise now, hoop dreams, best in show...the problem is i mostly watch tv now but open to suggestions!

shows: sherlock, boondocks; always sunny, stella, house, dexter, boardwalk empire, breaking bad, walking dead; aziz ansari; parks and recc; community, game of thrones, true detective, the wire, sopranos, true blood (doing the impressions is funny)

Music: erykah badu, thee satisfaction, njena redd foxx, moko lowkey, dosh, shadia mansour, ana tijoux, grimes, mashrou' leila, ghost poet, del, de la soul, prince royce, zebra katz, le1f, jai paul, s/s/s, sampha, blood orange, fka twigs, kelela, rjd2, dj shadow, the coup, hendrix, wu-tang clan, alsara and the nubatones, oldies, the narcicyst, kwabs, sam cooke, brother ali, omar offendum, the theoristr, temptations, 2chainz, belle and sebastian, sza, animal collective, dr. dog, the roots, los fabulosos cadillacs, raskahuele, tragatelo, chance the rapper, a.d.d+, earl sweatshirt, nina simone, rocky rivera, bambu, santigold, kinks, terrior bute, tlc, medeski martin & wood, radiohead, kills, pharcyde, fugees, flaming lips, tribe called quest

I worked as a pretzel salespersn for the stars at music fests for seven years when i was young so i have many funny stories about bands
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-my tempurpedic bed and pillows
-non-humxn animal companions aka omar
-ginger ale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-how to address my pain (I had double scoliosis and now have scheuermann's disease (aka back/neck pain and I've tried everything so I always look for ways to address it and do a lot of stretching/PE daily) and my dizziness (they say migraines) and to survive and why healthcare sucks and that struggle
-sexuality/gender spectrum/intimacy/compassion/m.i.a.'s girlzzzz song
-films/pop culture
-how to pet animals
-dealing with life and yada
-how to work the least amount (but that takes work too blah)
-"should i sleep more, or will that make me dizzy?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to find something to do or i'm out with a friend doing something/film/anything or chilling at home and eating food with good everything
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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If you're not a bigot and want to hang (and show me around a bit cuz i'm new to the Bay though have lived here on & off since '11)

i'm a yt persn and i recognize most of us really suck. like bigtime i try my best not to be one of those. so if you wanna take a risk and hang out w a yt persn who claims they are actively working on not recreating or participating in oppressive dynamics, ummm....hai!

[insert kewl quirky thing we could do here]