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52 Redwood City, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 47–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Politics / Government
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Active, curious, trying to be open-hearted and patient with myself and the world. I have been working on self-awareness for a few years and it has greatly reduced my stress level. I strive to be easygoing, recognizing that I am driven and goal oriented. Working in the policy arena for the past 10 years I have had plenty of opportunity to make things happen.

Whether at work or play I love having fun. Life is such a gift and I don't want to waste a moment. I rely on a decent sense of humor to help make tense situations easier to deal with and take fun up a notch. I enjoy a lot of activities including long distance cycling, live entertainment, gardening, making food with friends, and reading.

My life is full and I appreciate having a good job, a wonderful 21 year old daughter, close family and friends. I am an independent person who values deep connections.

I want to share my life with someone who I can call friend and lover. My heart yearns for an intimate connection with someone I can build trust with. I love cooking with a partner, going on adventures near and far, cuddling on the couch to watch a movie and finding playful ways to to make him smile.

I invite you to contact me. I will reply to all messages.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying feeling comfortable with myself. Exploring the edges. Lifting the rug and peeking behind the curtain.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend. I know how to listen.

I have a green thumb.

Making dinner, people feel welcome, organizing fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my positive attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently working my way through the Song of Ice and Fire series. Recently finished Americanah. Regular reader of the New Yorker, the New York Times and Gawker, Bold Italic and Sunset Magazine.

Wide range of music: blues, jazz, bluegrass/folk, Americana, pop, Downbeat, some house. Love a good groove.

I like food. I like to eat. I like to cook. I like to share.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, fresh air, wild spaces, chocolate, down time, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the complexity of the world. When I get tired of that I start thinking about what type of fun I will be having on the weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling at home or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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you know what you want and aren't afraid to ask for it.