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47 Seattle, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28, 2014
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm happy, healthy, work hard, enjoy life and don’t take things too seriously. I have a job I love, friends I love more, and now looking for someone to climb trees with. Remember when you were a kid and it wasn’t cool for boys and girls to like each another …the whole ‘cooties’ phase? But I had this one boy I really liked because he only pretended to tease me in front of his friends and snuck over to my house after school to watch cartoons. And you had that one girl you liked because she would smile at you when no one was looking and she would actually climb trees with you (without whining!).

Yes we have to match on some important fundamental issues. After that it comes down to if we share a truly open/honest connection and whether we have chemistry. Ultimately, I don’t care if you don’t want to go to the Opera with me. I’ll go; you clean the house and give me a massage when I get home. Just kidding! Well not about the massage. Seriously, who cares if I go to the Opera and you go do whatever? As long as we are the only ones we want to come back to. What’s important is that there isn’t a doubt as to whether we are honest and honor one another and that we have a genuine, passionate desire for one another.

Being in love, having an intensely intimate connection, and being independent are not mutually exclusive. Being independent isn’t so much the freedom to be apart, it’s keeping a commitment to each other to take care of ourselves, so that we can always stand alone or stand for each other when needed. It gives each person the freedom to love and share their life for no other reason than they rock your world:)

You can have lots of shared interests and spend a lot of time together, but if you are not attracted to each other, it doesn’t work. So rather than drone on about what I like and like to do I’ll tell you the type of person I’ll ditch my girlfriends for and cross a crowded room to talk to. Attractive (I know, very subjective) and takes good care of himself. Intelligent, funny, interesting, open, curious, genuine, laughs easily, confident, kind, humble enough, and happy to be in my company and his own. He keeps looking at me, and I only know this because I can’t stop looking at him either. Makes an effort to spend time with me and when together, he is easy to talk to, playful, genuine, direct but tactful, and dosesn't mind letting me know in a variety of ways that he is totally into me! He has no problem telling me I have beautiful eyes or that I have a big gob of spinach in my teeth – and we both laugh at it!

I enjoy too much to list, pretty much anything if the company is good. And I enjoy trying new things. I'm athletic, but I'm still a girl, i.e. I've climbed Mt Kilimanjaro without bathing, clean clothes, or a bathroom for 13 days, but my love of shoes gives me away as a girly girl occasionally. I’m emotionally mature, but still feel and act like a kid plenty enough to make life fun. I enjoy physical activities and hardly ever get left behind at any sport or activity. My friends are cool, but mostly married and not great for introductions! Hoping to find someone to enjoy all the great things in the pnw and hopefully more.
What I’m doing with my life
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Creating a good balance of doing the things I need to and things I love to. Work is important and I love my job. Play, entertainment, enlightenment, exploration, and relaxation are also important; as is sharing them with the ones I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing. Joking with my friends and having a good time, even when we are doing nothing. Cooking, some sports, tour guide, being a friend, being a sister, holding hands, kissing, sharing, my job, enjoying the moment, putting off boring things:)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and that I'm pretty easy to talk to. I'm very open and like to find humor in many things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food loves are many, but coffee, ice cream, and chocolate are favorites. I like a wide variety of music, except country - not a big fan there. Love to listen to live music. Movies and books I'm all over the board, except horror. I like everything from serious to silly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, music, great food/wine, books, Iphone, great conversation, laughter, travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning fun things to do, my friends, my family, what makes me happy, what makes others happy, other places/cultures, all the good things in life, how things work, what makes people tick, hikes, bikes, skis, and what chores I still need to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or home with a good movie. I like to get away for the weekend too, either out to another city, up skiing, or visit friends out of town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open person. I generally don't have any issue with answering any question I'm asked.
You should message me if
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You are stable in your life and career, but not boring. You cherish your life and the people in it. Are fun and funny, and not easily upset or offended. Intelligent, open, genuine, playful, warm, affectionate, great kisser, fit, and enjoy a wide variety of activities. Do not have a shirtless picture of yourself on your profile:)