A delayed bloomer in many ways, I'm just trying to find a bit of balance. As I was too busy moving from country to country in my 20's and never really entertained it in my early 30's, I haven't spent a lot of time dating though opportunities were there. When I turned 35, I ended up in a whirlwind relationship and just as quickly as it began, it ended. I'm cautious about entering into relationships now, but I have a lot to share with someone who can appreciate it. Though I've not been out the country in years, I have lived in both Northern and Southern California since having returned to the U.S.. The Friendship thing means a great deal to me.
I hope this does not come off as arrogance, but I am not at all here for sex. I [try to] respond to everyone, but I get a lot of sexual messages as soon as I do. PLEASE (PLEASE, PLEASE) do not contact me if your next message (or any subsequent one) is going to be about me sitting on your face or you masturbating. This is a complete repellant to me, on any level.
I love traveling and relaxing. I've been to about 20 countries. If I could find an actual career as a beach bum, I would do it. I think winter weather is beautiful to look at, but not to be in. I am a summer baby and need my vitamin D.
Born an Oakland Raiders' fan, I went to my 1st game at 3-weeks-old and even made it to their last Super Bowl. My cat's (my soulmate that recently passed away unexpectedly) name is Warrior. My favorite color might just be green because I grew up watching the As. You can see where my allegiance lies.
Rode a motorcycle as my one and only means of transportation but I haven't been back on it, thanks to an accident in October '09. It brought joy to my day on a daily and I hope to be able to again one day.
My close friends and all of their children make my life worthwhile, but when I don't see them (which is most of the time, given the distance), I settle for movies, TV, cooking, writing, practicing guitar, sitting outside in the sun and a day at the beach when I can get it and [attempting] cleaning.