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36 F Long Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:29pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Leo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Looking for new, mixed with familiar. Back in my 2nd home to start a 2nd BA and for a fresh start. Every day is an opportunity to begin again, to improve on something, to enjoy something and on a good day, both of those things and more.

I hope this does not come off as arrogance, but I am not at all here for sex. I [try to] respond to everyone, but I get a lot of sexual messages as soon as I do. PLEASE (PLEASE, PLEASE) do not contact me if your next message (or any subsequent one) is going to be about me sitting on your face or you masturbating. This is a complete repellant to me, on any level.

Though I've lived on 3 continents, my 1 true home is the Bay. It's where I was born and raised. As long as my 3 teams remain Oakland teams, I'm with them all the way. I love my city, I wish everyone in it loved & respected it as it deserves. It is the birthplace of so much culture, activism and greatness. Now, I'll be living in my 1st 2nd home and 1st home of my adulthood, the only acceptable place/reason to like dirtbags and 49ers. ;)

Rode a motorcycle as my one and only means of transportation but I haven't been back on it since an accident in October '09. It brought joy to my day on a daily and I hope to be able to again one day. I consider myself more of an adventurer than a thrill-seeker. I was never 1 to pop wheelies or make risky moves on my bike. I just enjoyed the adventure of the smells, the embrace of the breeze, the closeness toerything around me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Starting anew. Reinventing the wheel. Reliving missed moments (figure that 1 out :)). Discovering things that have been as they've been since the beginning of time, yet are completely new to me. Arguing with myself. Making detailed lists about my plans for the immediate and distant future, which I instantaneously misplace. Procrastinating on making my next moves, waiting for my mental acuity to catch up to my age. Returning to school to feed my brain and change my environment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
honing in on things with sunflowers on them, breaking electronic devices, fitting many things into compact spaces, being at ease with not fitting myself into anything (figuratively), providing friends with an alternate perspective or logic and making [important-to-me] people feel special on their birthdays.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Though I don't notice it, people tell me I have a nice smile. Also not the wordiest in my family, I do talk/write/ communicate a lot. People tend to notice that. People may also tend to think that I'm a little younger than I am. I've found that most people's first impressions of me tend to be completely off-base, be they good or bad (except for the talking too much thing).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am fairly aliterate (def: a person who is able to read but rarely chooses to do so), but I wish I read more.

The child who resides in me LOVES Finding Nemo and the Lion King. I CAN'T WAIT till Finding Dory comes out in 2015. :) I also like Goonies, Better off Dead, What About Bob, the Joy Luck Club, Any Given Sunday, Cinema Paradiso, Il Postino, Un Long Dimanche de Fiancier, obscure foreign films, most movies which play with time, many of Kevin Smith's films, Juice, the Kill Bills, just to name a few...

I discovered my obsession for Breaking Bad, just a month before it went off the air. I mean, I'd interview the actors in my dreams, wake up with Breaking Bad question and collected the mags that came out at the time of its wrap-up. Also like the Good Wife. Still reeling from the show's recent events.

I like a lot of different music, but could afford to be exposed to a lot more. I hope any friends I make introduce me to new things. I recently befriended a musician who was playing drums for George Clinton, but is truly a bassist and toured with Miles Davis for years. Oh, life's little adventures can be delightful.

I have healthful eating kicks. I need to get back to it, for so many reasons. I haven't eaten red meat or pork in 26 years and when I'm doing what I'm supposed to, I cut out all starches and simple sugars. On days when I am not giving up anything like, I'd eat Cuban, Peruvian, Thai or Japanese first, and have a deli sandwich with peppered turkey and smoked Gouda from Genova's. I love summer fruit (excluding melons). I think I have a minor blueberry addiction. [Unfortunately for me] Other than certain meats, there are few things I don't like to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sleep (and dreams)
Lions and Sunflowers
Water (to drink, to shower in, to swim in and to look at)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what the rhyme and reason is in life, when I'm going to figure it out. I think about occupations I'll never have, but still consider like being a diabetologist, a pilot, a school owner, etc.. I have a lot of random thoughts, as my mind is always moving. I think about the fact that people I know of have walked on the same streets where I have, but there's no evidence that they were ever there. I think about how I would properly use the winnings from Power Ball, Super Lotto or Mega. I wonder why I keep meeting famous people and if that means something. So I guess I just wonder where life will take me and what my great accomplishment will be before I leave this earth. I constantly reexamine the kind of person/friend/lover/partner/community member I am, and if ever I can right any wrongs I've done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing the same things I do every night, Pinky...Trying to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm different.
You should message me if
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you're a patient person, you're looking for friendship, your favorite activities don't include going on hikes and spending every spare moment at the gym and you're somewhere in my age range (give or take a few years). Please be a straightforward and honest person. If you find you have little in common with someone, be courteous enough to say that instead of disappearing.