I don't plan to call or have anyone call me asking where are you how come this or that. How come you didn't call me.
Just want call a person or not call and be happy. When I call someone I want to be happy just to hear thier voice. I don't want to question them and worry of this or that.
The way I like to think is that we are both on separate boats. You can visit me on mine, I on yours. We can even tie them together if we like.
But if we have only one and I'm sinking then we are both sinking. But if there are two and yours is sinking, you can jump on mine while yours gets fixed ;D