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30 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 19
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Softhearted, analytical, big ol' nerdy queer.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a lead mobile engineer at a healthcare startup. I teach and learn programming with other women & queer folks.
I’m really good at
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Learning how.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am not a great cook, but since reading Laurie Colwin's "Home Cooking", I've been on an absolute tear for making more things at home. The other week I threatened to marry the first person who could teach me to make broccoli rabe. Despite an informative Facebook thread, I am still single.

Same deal for music, art, and life, too. I'm a damn folkie at heart, destined for casseroles and pledge drives. Irish music makes my feet tap. Deadmau5 and the Apples in Stereo are in heavy rotation this week. But learning, playing and singing music is p. much my jam. Guitar and flutes, and I wish I could even deal with a clarinet.

Other stuff I like: bicycles, sailboats, sunscreen, Canada, subject/verb agreement, machine tools, plays, good documentation, seam rippers, telescopes. Football and basketball games, 'Archer' and 'Bob's Burgers'. 'Radiolab' and books.

Basically, this is important: I really prefer the sense of making, creating and attending to things over the sense of consuming them already-made.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
StackOverflow, dark chocolate, band-aids, pocketknives, saturated red-orange, the moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current answer: Kids.

Previous answers: Programming languages. Wires and metal. Goings-on in my neighborhood, the Mission, and the Bay Area. Editing programming books with my friend who writes them. Prison abolition. Cooking. Plans. Composition. Optics. Climbing things, going for hikes, fixing bikes, making pie crusts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Practicing, or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am some caffeinated blend of Jewish, atheist, and Buddhist. Software engineers mostly claim an allergy to religion. I just find it fascinating.
You should message me if
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If you've read 'Deathless' and you wished Baba Yaga would kidnap you, too.

Other'n that, if you want me to get to know you.

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