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30 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 6
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Geek, cyclist, nerdwhore, gentleman-and-a-scholar with absurdist sprinkles. Sometimes, literary heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Software engineering for good, chased with obsessive little projects. Riding bicycles. Playing music. Learning and teaching programming with other women & queer folks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
learning how.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sketchbook. Glasses. Eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This premise is unfairly long and specific. These are my actual favorites:
* bicycles
* sailboats
* singing bowls
* end mills
* cheap microcontrollers
* old drafting tools
* seam rippers
* printing presses
* telescopes

Aah, the rest of it... I eat a lot of vegetables, for a non-vegetarian. I like food and coffee and wine and internets. I fall asleep with books next to my head. I sing Decemberists songs in the shower. I live under a rock in matters of television. I have probably seen some movies before. Theater and burlesque are much more appealing, especially if there's fire. Haven't updated this section in a while; since last profile-poking I've started learning guitar, so there's that happening, too. Playing a whole lot of Sarah Jarosz and William Tyler around the house.

On the other hand, I was just recently drug out from my rock long enough to watch some Doctor Who and it is a delicious snack.

Basically, this is important: I really prefer the sense of making, creating and attending to things over the sense of consuming them already-made.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
StackOverflow, dark chocolate, band-aids, folding knives, saturated red-orange, twinkly lights
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Programming languages. Wires and metal. Economic models, the world's current state of fuckedness, where to dig in. Feminist problems, queer economic politics, pro-transparency, anti-censorship causes. Prison abolition. What combination of nearly raw ingredients to fashion into dinner. Plans. Composition. Optics. Pirates.

I'm a restless brain who has relatively lately learned about how wonderful it is to cross intellectual projects with wordless, corporeal joys. Climbing things, going for hikes, fixing bikes, making pie crusts. The glow in tired forearms and sweaty foreheads. Uh, so that means: not thinking at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing science to it
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OkCupid, hereafter referred to as "this thing", doesn't let you specify multiple religions. Being specific seems to miss the point, though, so: Atheism is an impoverished label. I am Jewish (emphasis on the ish) and draw comfort from a lot of Buddhist ideas. Atheist but not too serious about it? Juddhist. Yeah.
You should message me if
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-- you have a lot going on in your life, but you're still looking for closeness.

perhaps you like traveling, like bicycles a whole lot, and dislike cars.

hopefully, you like building and making and creating joyful things.