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23 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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pls ignore the username it was a bad decision I was thinking abt how everyone loves muppets
What I’m doing with my life
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**Just gonna put this near the top: I am almost exclusively interested in women and queer or trans men right now; I want to be with someone for whom the queer experience resonates. If that's not you, don't bother.


Learning how to self identify as a babe. Being earnest. Learning how to have a body.

More practically: I'm a freelance blogger/essayist/journalist (hard to define, thanks late capitalism!), which means I get to write about whatever I feel like. Recent topics include computer generated poetry, pumpkin spice lattes, punk music, TV, and sex. My interests are diverse but they're all just different ways of understanding desire, which is important to me. Right now I'm learning to write lean and funny because comedy is a monetizable sign of intelligence.

Also: relationships confuse me in general (trying to change this) but I also just got out of a complicated non-relationship relationship so we will probably get along best if you're cool with me being confused + searching, or if you are confused + searching too.

to leaven the seriousness: my tumblr (mildly NSFW)
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passionate about literary theory, affect theory, poetry. to counterbalance the pretentiousness of being "passionate about literary theory," my two favorite novels are A Wrinkle In Time and The Great Gatsby. I like stories about falling in love and stories about heartbreak.

as for music, tv, and movies, i can out-snob with the best of them but i'm trying to KISS (heh).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
poetry, net art, joni mitchell, affect theory, feminism, posthumanism, "It takes a nation of millions to hold us back," bad puns, sloppy photoshop jobs, fake food, bathos.
You should message me if
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the #1 most important thing to me is that you are thoughtful/inquisitive about the world and take pleasure in its attendant ambiguity

other things:
-you have some sort of skill set or passion you can introduce me to
-you enjoy slightly 'off' humor along the lines of the arscheerio paul show or the comics of brad neely
-you are a musician, a carpenter, or a hot female firefighter
-you're a girl who dresses like a teenage dirtbag

I'm really neurotic and I like people who can balance me out.