While I was living in Los Angeles, I studied Linguistics, Music Composition and Massage; in Vancouver, I studied Audio Engineering and English Teaching (TESOL/TEFL).
I have two expectations of everybody everywhere:
1) Have your words and your actions in alignment with each other, and
2) Barring that, if this is not possible, provide an explanation as to why.
Anything other than these two things, so long as you're not hurting anybody and you're behaving in a safe, agreed-upon, consensual manner between consenting and responsible adults, I encourage you to live life however makes you happy.
At the current time, I'm anchor-dropped in Romania (specifically in the city of Pitesti).
I'm a massive nerd, particularly when it comes to anything relating to Linguistics, and may geek out at any time.
I have Asperger's Syndrome, just so you're aware. Interpret however you wish to your heart's desire.