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40 M Bockenheim, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:32pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Active Ingredients: extrovert, prankster, long hair, beard, tattoos, polyamorous, equal parts of laptop and kitchen, a hint of snark, a little bit of wanderlust mixed with a dash of gemuetlichkeit.

I am a classically trained chef. In my life I have been a logging lorry driver in Canada, bouncer in a rave club and a gay bar, ran a shelter for runaway kids, wrote books, hunted treasure, worked in a gaming company's story department, and hiked every continent (yes, that includes the arctic circles, no it wasn't as much fun as I thought it would be). I also cooked a lot, in greasy spoons and fancy white table cloth places with Michelin stars.

Man spricht Deutsch (wer erinnert sich überhaupt noch an diesen alten Schinken?). Oder Englisch. Oder, nach drei Bier, ein Bisschen Niederländisch oder Französisch.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a freelance photographer and writer for a bunch of US magazines in all matters Europe. Sometimes I cover politics, sometimes events, and very often I just go out and shoot people and places, talk to locals, write about all that, and send it in.

I am fortunate to be able to combine my love for traveling and seeing the world with my job. Sometimes the latter makes the former stressful (see airport, see hotel, see event, see to get back home) but all in all it's fun.

On weekends and my days off I should put the camera down, which sadly doesn't work so often. I do boudoir photography for friends and am always the one they call if they need a photog for something. But, hey, if it gets me into parties... :)
I’m really good at
getting madly enthusiastic about little things. Finding the lost remote in the cushions. In airports my secret superpower is to always park the furthest away from whatever gate I am supposed to be at.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kurt Vonnegut, David Sedaris, Bill Bryson, James Joyce, my taste in books runs the gamut from funny to heavy. Luckily Google Books and the Kindle make it easy to always have half a library with me.
The six things I could never do without
(bare necessities aside)
- my passport
- my notebook, camera, and pen
- my friends
- winter
- love
- a pair of good shoes and a flashlight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That Surgeon General guy and why he hates everything I love.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a character in a BDSM novel and have a NPC named after me in World of Warcraft. I therefore defy both stereotypes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Don't "if"... just do it. I love learning about people, listen to their stories. If we never meet, never talk again, we'll still have touched someone's life for a spell and learned about someone else. And what is more fun than to learn about others?