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41 Frankfurt, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:49am
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Active Ingredients: Extrovert, beard, tattooed, polyamourous, equal parts of laptop and kitchen, snark, wanderlust and gemütlichkeit.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a journalist by trade, writing travel and culture pieces about Europe for two US Magazines. I hate standing still, hate feeling like I am not evolving, so in the past twenty years I've had more jobs in different areas than I am willing to admit.

I trained to be a cook oh so long ago, then got a degree in Psychology (Social and Abnormal, not Clinical), worked as a lorry driver in an ecological logging operation in Canada, was a Medical Examiner's assistant, a bouncer in a brothel, that stuff.

These days I get paid to do those odd things, hike 500 km along the Romantic Road or herd cows for a month in the French alps, and then write about them. It's still freaking unreal to me, four years in, but I intend to enjoy the crap out of it as long as it lasts.

I am not interested in games. I abhor misogyny. I consider myself a feminist, radical and opinionated, and refuse to be silent or silenced.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- lose and find the lost remote in the cushions.
- always park the furthest away from my gate in airports.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Meine Tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut, David Sedaris, Bill Bryson, James Joyce, and of course Hunter S. Thompson. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas and George Orwell's "Down and Out in Paris and London" are my favorite books.

Music starts with Norse Metal and ends at Bach and Rachmaninov.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(bare necessities aside)
- Passport
- Notebook, camera, pen
- Friends
- Winter
- Love
- a bag, a flashlight, good shoes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
aus dem Haus
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a character in a BDSM novel and have a NPC in World of Warcraft named after me. I therefore defy the stereotype of the romance-less nerd.
You should message me if
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Don't "if"... just do it. I love learning about people, listen to their stories. If we never meet, never talk again, we'll still have touched someone's life for a spell and learned about someone else. And what is more fun than to learn about others?

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