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41 Frankfurt, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:16am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Active Ingredients: Extrovert, beard, tattooed, polyamourous, equal parts of laptop and kitchen, snark, wanderlust and gemütlichkeit.

Born in Iceland, raised in Holland and Germany, lived in the United States and Canada for most of my adult life, now back in Germany.

During my Sturm und Drang youth I traveled the world for a few years, right after dropping out of high school and apprenticing as a cook. Cooking in tourist hellholes financed the trip, more or less, every few months forward and onward to the next faux happy place in the snow or sun. Ten years later, after a very brief stint in academia, that time came back to haunt me in the form of a job offer as a travel and food writer. Hah, would have never thought those two youthful lapses in judgment would pay my bills.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write stories, mostly for print but that's changing to web ever so slowly as journalism itself changes. Yep, I am a journalist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- lose and find the lost remote in the cushions.
- always park the furthest away from my gate in airports.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut, David Sedaris, Bill Bryson, James Joyce, and of course Hunter S. Thompson. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas and George Orwell's "Down and Out in Paris and London" are my favorite books.

Music starts with Norse Metal and ends at Bach and Rachmaninov.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(bare necessities aside)
- Passport
- Notebook, camera, pen
- Friends
- Winter
- Love
- a bag, a flashlight, good shoes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out and about. Generally I follow the old and proven approach of food -> bar -> dive bar, but lately I have been adding some volunteer work every other weekend. That cuts into my dive bar time, fiercely even.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a character in a BDSM novel and have a NPC in World of Warcraft named after me. I therefore defy the stereotype of the romance-less nerd.
You should message me if
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Don't "if"... just do it. I love learning about people, listen to their stories. If we never meet, never talk again, we'll still have touched someone's life for a spell and learned about someone else. And what is more fun than to learn about others?