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56 Glorieta, NM Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 51–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am interested in meeting someone who inspires me to get off this site, and whom I have the same effect on- someone who wants to share a deeply connected, monogamous relationship.

Tough to acknowledge hair turning gray, much less turning loose, yet I've had to do both. Hair cut and trimmed, instead of long in places and non-existent in others.

I haven't owned a television in 15 years, and don't miss it. When travelling there may be a movie that I will watch.

I like non-conformist thinking. Non-conformist behaviour tends towards voting and how I spend money. I prefer to blend in with people, though have no problem expressing my thoughts on topics.

I used to travel extensively for work, and want to generally travel
more within this area to see what I have been missing. I enjoy travelling on my motorcycle, but having horses in the new backyard has cut into that pastime. Riding horses through the Santa Fe national forest is a treat that I love indulging in.

Most personality tests I have taken indicate that I am an INTJ, which seems consistent with my experience of myself. I am the middle son and middle child of 7. Dag nabbit! I am generally quiet until I get comfortable around people, which can take a few minutes or a lifetime.

I do not have, want nor am I working to get six pack abs. I do not care if you do or not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm sure it's being misspent, just like my youth. I was so much older then; I'm younger than that now.

The line at the end of Saving Private Ryan sums up my life's ambition. When Ryan is visiting the grave of the men who died to save him, he asks his wife to tell him that he has lived a good life, since that is the only justification for the sacrifice those people made to save him. I want my efforts to have justified my existence.

Trying to enjoy it by riding my horse and ignoring irritating people; if you voted for Romney or have a bikini picture on your profile, we are probably not going to hit it off in any positive sense. Watching the direction of this country over the recent past has caused me to become as politically active as I have ever been, volunteering to make "get out the vote" calls, and writing my state and federal representatives. Now, if only they would listen. Pfht.

I walk, ride my horse and motorcycle several times a week.

I like to go out to wildlife sanctuaries too see unusual birds and wildlife, even though I don't know nor give a flip what their botanical or even common names are.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Divorce, apparently - I've done it twice. Well, really. I would like to explore other options.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Other than that thumb growing out of my forehead, maybe it is my debonair wit and existential charm? Probably that I am casually dressed, and can be shy in large groups. Go figure.

Maybe that I need a haircut.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I suffer Adult Onset Book Addiction: So many books, so little time. Some of my favorites are Pirzig's Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance; Campbell's Hero with a Thousand Faces; Wilson's The Moral Sense. For light reading anything by Richard Russo. Ian Rankin is good, too.

Movies: Not so many. Blazing Saddles; History of the World, Part I; Marx Brothers, most anything else except horror films. Worlds Fastest Indian is wonderful.

Music: Like books, too much to listen to, too little time. Anything but Rap and Hip Hop type stuff. Love that good ol' rock & roll, bebop, big band, some country (Marty Robbins, Willie, Guy Clarke, Hays Carll, etc).

Food: See books and music above. Very little that I have tried that I do not like, and very little I haven't tried.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1a - Love
1b - Friendship
2 - Motorcycles
3 - Internet
4 - Music
5- Outdoor Activities
6 - Pockets
7 - Horses
and that really is 8, so bite me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I might meet on OKC, hoping that she has all her own teeth and hair, whether she will have to produce a receipt for them. She would be able to reed and cifer reel gud. Education is important, dag nabbit all. And of course, a sense of humor would be wonderful. If I get serious, you would definitely be warned before hand. Something like "Danger, Will Robinson, Danger!"

Other thoughts include where this country is headed; where to go on the next vacation; whether she will really have a receipt.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yup, definitely am. Much more often than I am not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am tasty on toast.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I have no rational answer to that question, but would like to hear yours.