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55 M Glorieta, NM

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:57am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
OK, I've moved and have now lived in Glorieta, NM - just outside of Santa Fe, for about a year now. While I still maintain some of my hometown preferences, I still stream KPFT radio, Houston's Pacifica Radio station for example, living in the Sangre de Christos mountains is wonderful.

I am interested in meeting someone who I have a spark with and wants to share a deeply connected, monogamous relationship.

Tough to acknowledge hair turning gray, much less turning loose, yet today I did both. Hair cut and trimmed, instead of long in places and non-existent in others.

I haven't owned a television in 15 years, and don't miss it. When travelling there may be a movie that I will watch.

I like non-conformist thinking. Non-conformist behaviour tends towards voting and how I spend money. I prefer to blend in with people, though have no problem expressing my thoughts on topics.

I used to travel extensively for work, and want to generally travel
more within this area to see what I have been missing. I enjoy travelling on my motorcycle, but having horses in the new backyard has cut into that pastime. Riding horses through the Santa Fe national forest is a treat that I love indulging in.

Most personality tests I have taken indicate that I am an INTJ, which seems consistent with my experience of myself. I am the middle son and middle child of 7. Dag nabbit! I am generally quiet until I get comfortable around people, which can take a few minutes or a lifetime.

I do not have, want nor am I working to get six pack abs. I do not care if you do or not.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm sure it's being misspent, just like my youth. I was so much older then; I'm younger than that now.

The line at the end of Saving Private Ryan sums up my life's ambition. When Ryan is visiting the grave of the men who died to save him, he asks his wife to tell him that he has lived a good life, since that is the only justification for the sacrifice those people made to save him. I want my efforts to have justified my existence.

Trying to enjoy it by riding my horse and ignoring irritating people; if you voted for Romney, we are probably not going to hit it off in any positive sense. Watching the direction of this country over the recent past has caused me to become as politically active as I have ever been, volunteering to make "get out the vote" calls, and writing my state and federal representatives. Now, if only they would listen. Pfht.

I walk, ride my horse and motorcycle several times a week.

I like to go out to wildlife sanctuaries too see unusual birds and wildlife, even though I don't know nor give a flip what their botanical or even common names are.
I’m really good at
Divorce, apparently - I've done it twice. Well, really. I would like to explore other options.
The first things people usually notice about me
Other than that thumb growing out of my forehead, maybe it is my debonair wit and existential charm? Probably that I am casually dressed, and can be shy in large groups. Go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I suffer Adult Onset Book Addiction: So many books, so little time. Some of my favorites are Pirzig's Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance; Campbell's Hero with a Thousand Faces; Wilson's The Moral Sense. For light reading anything by Richard Russo. Ian Rankin is good, too.

Movies: Not so many. Blazing Saddles; History of the World, Part I; Marx Brothers, most anything else except horror films. Worlds Fastest Indian is wonderful.

Music: Like books, too much to listen to, too little time. Anything but Rap and Hip Hop type stuff. Love that good ol' rock & roll, bebop, big band, some country (Marty Robbins, Willie, Guy Clarke, Hays Carll, etc).

Food: See books and music above. Very little that I have tried that I do not like, and very little I haven't tried.
The six things I could never do without
1a - Love
1b - Friendship
2 - Motorcycles
3 - Internet
4 - Music
5- Outdoor Activities
6 - Pockets
7 - Horses
and that really is 8, so bite me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who I might meet on OKC, hoping that she has all her own teeth and hair, whether she will have to produce a receipt for them. She would be able to reed and cifer reel gud. Education is important, dag nabbit all. And of course, a sense of humor would be wonderful. If I get serious, you would definitely be warned before hand. Something like "Danger, Will Robinson, Danger!"

Other thoughts include where this country is headed; where to go on the next vacation; whether she will really have a receipt.
On a typical Friday night I am
Yup, definitely am. Much more often than I am not.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I have no rational answer to that question, but would like to hear yours.