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30 Tallahassee, FL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:01am
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born and raised in South Florida, but I'm not a big fan of the state. I lived in Cali, which was okay but not really for me either. I think I'd like to live around D.C. or somewhere in New England.

I'm a good listener, when I'm not having a hyper nerd rant, and I'm a very supportive friend. I think that hurting or embarrassing somebody publicly is akin to murder.

Bisexual was the closest option, but really I'm not hung up on gender as a rule. I like whom I like and that's that, and they come in many forms.

I'm in an open relationship, so that's something to know. I'm a huge nerd, but I'm eclectic so mostly I know a little bit about a whole lot of things. I'm very agreeable, and I'll try just about anything at least once.

I'm really sick of being the only one making an effort in relationships, so I'm not going to go about trying to pin people down. I'll happily make the first move, but if you actually enjoyed hanging out with me, as a friend or otherwise, then I expect you to reach out to me at some point. I do not have the time to chase people down, nor do I have the energy to beg for attention. I'm a grown person, with a job and a life, and if I make time for you, and you don't opt to take advantage of that, then I'm going to stop making time for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At this time, I am really putting effort into finding a new direction. Also I'm trying to take charge of some serious issues before my parents start actually aging and stuff gets real.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being devious, playing catch, making three pointers, poking, whistling, not falling, acting, singing, molding half ideas and getting bored before the finish, reading, non-fiction writing, one on one fighting vgs (DOA, Tekken, etc.), dirty looks, quick retorts, and, in a surprising turn, I am also good at listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Um... glasses? Beard? I don't know, I'm not them. I'd like to think its my cool hazel gaze or my full lips but I worry it's my tum.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like lots of books, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, with some horror and thriller types thrown in as well; Sword of Truth, Dark Tower, etc. Some classics as well, like Jane Austin books, or the old gothic horrors. I shamelessly read YA books. For movies, I like sci-fi, courtroom dramas, really well made "classics", smart comedies, quirky action, dystopic scenarios and horror; Double Indemnity, Independence Day, Star Trek, Ghosts of Mississippi, A Time To Kill, Die Hard, Lean On Me, 12 Angry Men, Equilibrium, The Exorcist, The Evil Dead. My favorite TV shows right now are Vikings, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, @Midnight, Adventure Time. I like most music but not pop country; some of my favorite bands/artists include Black Sabbath, The Doobie Brothers, Green Day, Prince, Queen, Robert Palmer, Snoop Dogg, Red Elvises, FOB, MCR, Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, Heart, Blondie, The Ramones, Tracy Chapman, Adelle, and more. I love food, especially when it's awful for you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family. Pizza. Internet. My glasses. Freedom. Hot water. (Without hot water, freedom isn't even worth it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, school, money, politics, ethics, random bits of stories...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out, catching a movie, hanging with friends, stuff like that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate a lot of people and things. It's a side effect of being aware.
You should message me if
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You're serious about being casual. I know that sounds dumb, but I'm gonna stick with it. I'm really looking for an FWB or two and my forays into less savory websites hasn't yielded results. I may not be a male model but I am witty, strong, intelligent, caring, cute, and more invested in giving a good time than receiving one. So if you want an attentive FB with a sense of humor, I'm that guy.

Also, feel free to ask me any questions about my poly or pansexual status and what it means.