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gade4

53 / M / bisexual / Single

Portland, Oregon

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5' 7" (1.70m).
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Athletic
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
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Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
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Education
Graduated from masters program
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Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am creative, colorful, and deep.

My Self-Summary

well this is hard to put in a nutshell. I like eccentric people. I go way out of my way for them and make them my friends. They are like the random thread of color in a Navaho rug that lets the spirit out. I cant say that Im all that eccentric but maybe im nourished by the spirit they release just by being around them. Im a musician. I play guitar, mandolin, piano and celtic harp to name a few. I used to play in an irish band and relish world music. Some of my songs have been played on the radio. when I travel I like to collect instruments from the countries Ive visited. Ive been to Europe, Mexico, Belize, guatemala, chile, Peru and Argentina. I just got back from costa rica a few weeks ago.

I also love to watercolor and have had my work displayed at an art gallery. I try to paint wherever I travel to slow things down and notice the details around me. Im taking a life drawing class right now with nude models. The human form is so outragiously hard to put on paper! but i really want to be able to do that. I recently took a rock carving class and the result is up above. gotta find time to do more.

I have two outragiously fun and intelligent kids that I love to be around.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a teacher and have my masters in creative arts and learning. That means Ive been trained to insert art into all areas of the curriculum. I love my job seeing kids fully engaged in an art project. Summers are off and I love to travel. Lately limited by what is the cheap travel alternative but i did make it to costa Rica this year and snorkled in the carribean and the pacific, saw nesting sea turtles at 1 on the morning under a three quarter moon, stood on an erupting volcano, jammed with the rastafarians, and soaked in terraced hot springs in a jungle with giant blue florescent butterflies flitting through. and I did this with my kids. 11 and 13.

I’m really good at

singing in harmony, noticing detail, encouraging conversations, making people feel at ease

The first things people usually notice about me

that Im a short person 5'6". I am balding. that Im easy to make smile. I am fit, masculine and strong. I am easy to be around. I am accepting and nonjudgemental and love to laugh. I like to listen, sing and move to music.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read nonfiction about meditation, buddhism, sexuality, visualization, teaching kids, and studying art techniques.

Love to watch movies but never seem to have the time. Love to kick back with a friend and watch a great movie though. I like dramas and action but hate violent flicks.

I love acoustic and world music with odd instruments. Also love the classic folk singers and harmonizers. Among those i listen to: Paul Simon, Led Zepplin, Bruce Cockburn, Joni Mitchell, Crosby stills and Nash, Peter Gabriel, Tim and Jeff Buckley, Bob Marley, Peter Paul and Mary, Bob Dylan, The Carey Bothers, neil Young, Jack Johnson, Nickel Creek, Mindy Smith, Iron and Wine, Alabama 3, andrew Bird, Beck, Gillian Welch, Greg Brown, Mark Knofler, Sean hayes, Talking heads, Van Morrison, The Weepies

Love to try all kinds of food from all over the world. I am predudice towards insects and animal brains. love sushi, seafood, vegetarian, Asian foods, curry, some hot stuff but not extreme, love to grill.

The six things I could never do without

my kids
music
travel
trusting friends
hiking
painting

I spend a lot of time thinking about

sexuality
the baggage of religion
the fate of our planet
how to keep the deer from eating my apple branches
how to get the moles out of my garden
the arrangements of my music

On a typical Friday night I am

hanging and playing music with my friends
camping
in a bookstore
watching Austin City Limits

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a bisexual.

You should message me if

You are a bisexual woman or you are straight and it does not bother you that i am bi and if are interested in meeting a very interesting and diverse man that is looking for a friend to explore the world with. I will send back a pic of me when you contact me.