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61 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat), Yiddish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Kind hearted curmudgeon; thingmaker; dedicated amateur musician. Father of a ten year old son and five year old daughter. Bicyclist. Reader and ranter. Cooker and Eater.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making and fixing musical instruments. Playing music for (social) change. Spending as much time in boats as I can. Taking care of kids half time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Explaining and sharing what I know. Using my senses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Jane Jacobs, Lewis Mumford, Mike Davis, Wendell Berry, Barbara Kingsolver, Herman Melville, Louis B. Jones. Calvin Trillin, MFK Fisher. Seamus Heany, Pablo Neruda, Rumi.

John Sayles, Ken Loach, John Huston (later stuff especially) Alice in der Stadten. The Life and Opinions of Zato Ishi. Perspolis. The Incident at Roshomon Gate. Bodas de Sangre. Almodovar.

Franco, Cortijo, Lydia Mendoza, Leadbelly, Banda Ionica, Sleepy John Estes, Uncle Dave Macon, Arsenio Rodriguez, Sun-Ra, Ornette Coleman, Charlie Haden, Naftule Brandtwein, Frank London, Ray Charles, Bill Monroe. Amalia Rodriguez.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my kids, or out playing or listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a morbid fascination with office supplies.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a good nose, a healthy appetite, and lots of opinions.