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53 Lafayette, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–99
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:43am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a black male, salt and pepper hair, average body. My good friends describe me as fun to be with, witty, good-looking, sensitive, intelligent, and concerned for mankind.

I like to cook (and am very good at it). I am a big movie buff (I’m at the movies at least once a week and try to make the major movie festivals every year). I enjoy good wines especially Pinot Noirs), a good book, and fine dining. I enjoy going to various festivals in San Francisco.

My politics is left-leaning (I did not vote for Bush and you did not either). I was in politics for several years and have run for political office. Along with my 9-5 job, I also head an international think-tank that I formed 15 years ago that focuses on women and children’s human rights. I am well-traveled (having spoken in several countries on the human rights abuses of women and children), well-read (although not as much as I would like to be), a published author (6 law review articles, 5 social science articles, 1 book) with other books in the works. I am not afraid to speak my mind and I do not mince words.

I am serious, sensual, and affectionate
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing three books is taking most of my time. Also just putting life in order, as usual.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, selecting good wines, sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My salt and pepper hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just ask.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, movies, good food, great wine, a good martini, art.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World affairs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having drinks with friends or attending an art reception or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Just ask!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a regular life. You will have a very, very high sex drive (I do) and want to have sex very, very often and will be open-minded enough to want to explore other sexual or sensual avenues.