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24 Durham, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 5
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There is not a lot to say about myself. I guess I can say is I was born in New York and raised in North Carolina. My parents are still together and I have an older brother and sister who are twins. I have two dogs who I adore more than anything and I don't know what I would do without them. My main goal is to get through life and achieve what I can.
I am very artistic with an artistic family of two musicians, an artist, a dancer, and someone who craves all (that would be me :P)
I enjoy history from wars to history of creative art and literature. I love talking about books and television shows and discover the meaning behind them.
My biggest flaw is I ramble on talking. What is suppose to be a five minute chat turns into a half hour conversation. I am truly my mother's daughter!
I love traveling and hope to afford to be able to go to more countries.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I would like to do something in the theater world but I do not know what in yet. Another passion is to open a non-profit creative arts center for kids with high-functioning disabilities. I want to create a place where these kids can belong and not feel like a weirdo or outsider; something I went through in the past. I have overcome so much in my life and I want to make a difference in another's as well.
So I guess to answer the question is too go on as many adventures as I can and then work to help kids not make the mistakes the previous have made.
I was recently in Israel teaching English to Israeli and Arab children. It was such an amazing experience and I learned so much from my time there about identity and human nature. I went on to Italy, Ireland, and England so I can be a seasonal traveler.
Currently, I work part-time as a support professional with people with developmental disabilities which is such a fun and learning experience.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, Acting, Baking (I can make a mean oreo pecan cheesecake), Outdoorsy stuff (hiking, white-water rafting), reading, researching. I have loved archery way before the Hunger Games made it a trend; I feel epic when I do it.
There is still so much I want to learn and I spend my time reading about movies and history. I think about where I want to travel next and see in the world.
Oh and I am also great teaching which is why I would like to be a teacher as well someday.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically my eyes. People always comment on my hazel eyes and majority say they are beautiful; guess that is why they are my favorite feature of my body.
My personality is also something people notice for I am a fun-loving, responsible, outgoing, goofy person. I may not be smart when it comes to socializing but I make people laugh and awe them with my knowledge. You can ask my family and they will tell how incredible it is that I know so much about movies and tv shows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: The Hunger Games Trilogy, The Divergent Trilogy, Harry Potter, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland, Brave New World, William Shakespeare's plays, Anthem, Dante's Inferno, I Am Malala, The Cuckoo's Calling, The Silkworm

MOVIES: The Hunger Games, Titanic, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Harry Potter, Anastasia, Blazing Saddles, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Airplane, Casablanca, Batman Trilogy (Christopher Nolan), Star Wars (NOT THE PREQUELS), Inception, Animal House, The Hobbit, This is the End, Moulin Rouge.

Shows: Supernatural, NCIS and NCIS Los Angeles, So You Think You Can Dance, Dancing With the Stars, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Tosh.O, Ridiculousness, Falling Skies, Arrow, The Flash, Sleepy Hollow, BBC, oh and cannot forget about Sherlock!

Music: Fall Out Boy, Led Zeppelin, ACDC, Jimi Hendrix, Journey, Adele, Lady Gaga, Beyonce, Jay-Z, Michael Jackson, Green Day, Imagine Dragons, The Lumineers, HAIM, Hans Zimmer, Billy Joel, The Rolling Stones, Frank Sinatra, Aerosmith, Bruce Springsteen, Macklemore and Ryan Lewis.

Food: Italian, Chinese, Indian, Mexican, Japanese, Cookout, Mediterranean.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, chocolate, family, the internet, oxygen, my dogs Mia and Apollo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, what will it hold? I try to stay in the present but it is so hard. I want to find someone to love and spend the rest of my life with, have kids, a great job, friends. Doesn't anyone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Coming home to leftovers and chatty roommates. If my friends are available, we go out to dinner or the movies or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Call me dramatic or sappy, but I watch the soaps General Hospital and Days of Our Lives. SUE ME! I watched one episode of each and got hooked!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing to accept me for the kind of person I am. I am not interested in one-night stands but a relationship whether it is friendship or something more.
I guess overall, if you want to talk about movies, books, tv shows, or anything at all, shoot me an email and lets go for it.
Honestly, if someone responds first, I would rather a conversation than a simple Hi or Hello.