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  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I would say I am laid back, but focused. I have had a contemporary art gallery for over 25 years and was a painter/Univ. prof. teaching painting/drawing before that, so art is important in one form or another. Also music- worked for bands( Grateful Dead, others) and played in bands for years. Still play guitar. Basically a strong connection to all the arts, love opera, dance, theater. Gallery is downtown in NYC on the LES. And family is important- I have 3 grown children that live away. Also always important- kindness. compassion, humor. Politically liberal. Enjoy the country as much as the city. I'm looking for a woman that is happy with who they are, where they are at and has the energy to try new things and places. Like most people I see on here I love people with a sense of humor. I enjoy laughing at myself and most situations. Often go to MOMA, to see films and exhibits. Would like to find a partner that is curious, brave, optimistic and honest.

I go upstate NY to Narrowsburg - small town along the Delaware River, where I have a farmhouse I am fixing up. Really beautiful and relaxing. Also my 5 yr old Aussie " Yoshi" is very happy and has set out to herd the local deer. Go to Ireland (My Sligo house) a bit also. Like growing orchids.
What I’m doing with my life
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Well, trying to make a small difference locally, globally. Trying to develop more skills in the kindness and compassion department. Working on small personal goals also- giving away more things, playing better guitar, gardening more, simplifying. exploring unknown things, longer walks, learn French.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I enjoy cooking, gardening, playing guitar, reading, growing orchids, writing and I think I am pretty good at these activities. Finding and supporting developing artists is a constant education and re-evaluation of my established ideas regarding my world.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My twinkly eyes? laughing? White hair? Third eye? Don't know you'd have to ask the people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love Italian and Japanese, Mexican, Asian, French, Vegetarian food. Really anything other than fast food. Neighborhood restaurants.
Films: Intouchables, Fantastic Mr. Fox, Big Lebowski, GroundHog Day, Truffaut, Godard, Wes Anderson, film noir, documentaries.
Opera at the Met
BAM Next Wave Festival
Public Theater
Acoustic folk and blues live- Jalopy Theater in Red Hook
Classical chamber music live
Dirty Projectors, Wilco, Cat Power, Miles Davis, Grateful Dead, Willie Nelson, Chet Baker, Ryan Adams, Eric Satie, Chopin, Steve Earle, Richard Thompson, Dylan lots of other music.
Robertson Davies, Dalai Lama and Thomas Bernhard non- fiction and travel books,
Book of Mormon- great play, off off broadway or BAM for Theater
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seeing my children
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
projects- art shows, music shows, home fix-it, traveling to warm water locations, starting an artist residency, basketball. trying to make a positive difference in little things. forming community, working on my writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to dinner with friends or perhaps a movie or staying home and making a nice dinner and watching a movie. reading.
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I'll tell you anything.
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