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61 Columbia, SC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a newly single man (After the world's most cordial divorce) with a multitude of interests including music and cinema, reading voraciously, politics, writing, gardening, gourmet cooking, songwriting, business, history, sociology and psychology, science and anything else that catches my attention can become a huge interest in short order. I have been self-employed for most of my life and very happily so. I have also played in bands most of my life and I have been fortunate to have travelled quite a bit in some of the better bands. I still play in a band today, in fact. Many friends have told me I am the funniest human being in the world who is not making money from it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I seriously believe that each one of us, if we make a concerted effort can contribute to making the world a better place. I think each kindness toward others resonates through the universe and in its small way comes back to us many times over. I try to live a good life, treat everyone I meet with respect and kindness and I love to know that in some small way, something I say or do will make a fellow person's day. It all boils down to what the Dalai Lama says, "My religion is kindness". So simple, but so profound, don't you think?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, playing music, striking up a conversation with a total stranger, explaining complex things to others in an understandable, accurate way, telling funny stories and jokes, thinking outside the box, trivia other than hip-hop and rap "music" and pop/celebrity culture which I very proudly suck at. The rest, I am MONEY!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am almost always smiling and happy and it is usually contagious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"Lonesome Dove" by Larry McMurtry is both my favorite book and movie but there are thousands of others I adore as I am a HUGE fan of reading and cinema. Histories, historical fiction, westerns, murder mysteries, sci-fi, politics, biographies and autobiographies and thrillers are all among my favorites in both books and cinema.

Some favorite Authors:
Colleen McCullough, Tom Clancy, Ken Follett, Gary Jennings, James Patterson, Nelson DeMille, Jane Austen, Douglas Preston, Michael Crichton, John Grisham, Dan Brown, Robert Ludlum, Robert Massie, E.A. Poe, R.L. Stevenson, MANY others.

Other Favorite Movies:
Shawshank Redemption, The Quiet Man, The Outlaw Josey Wales, The Shining, Quigley Down Under, Godfather I & II, Juno, Pride and Prejudice, The Terminator I, II & III, The Water is Wide, Caddyshack, The Usual Suspects, The Big Lebowski, Pulp Fiction, Get Shorty, The Oxbow Incident, Casablanca, Gone With the Wind, Papillion, The Great Dictator, Duck Soup, The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance, The Princess Bride, Animal House, Snatch, LA Confidential, Citizen Cane, Many, MANY more!

TV Shows:
Mostly Netflix, but I love College Football (Go GAMECOCKS!). When my TV is on DirecTV, its usually on Palladia (LOVE Live at Darryl's House!) and stuff like Science Channel, History, Discovery, Food Network, Military Channel or Political stuff. The Daily Show and The Colbert Report are MUST SEE TV! When I am watching Netflix and not watching movies or any Historical or Scientific Documentaries, I love Breaking Bad, Hell on Wheels, Orange is the New Black, etc.

The Beatles, Dada, Wilson Pickett, Steely Dan, James Carr, James Taylor, Ben Folds Five, The Doors, Carly Simon, Allman Brothers Band, The Who, Jimi Hendrix, Squeeze, Crowded House, Stones, Kinks, Marvin Gaye, Aretha, Del Amitri, Badfinger, Joe Jackson, CCR, Smokey Robinson, Stevie Wonder, Stevie Ray, The Clarks, so many more, it would take pages......

Italian, Mexican, Cajun, Greek, Thai, Vietnamese, Lebanese, Southern, anything based on Seafood, Steak grilled to perfection, fresh summer tomatoes and other fresh veggies and as a very good cook, I really enjoy finding interesting, adventurous recipes and cooking them. Most turn out great-some, not so much.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sleeping in a comfortable king-size bed
2. Steak grilled medium rare over charcoal and hickory
3. Great, dark, bitter microbrews
4. Friends
5. Great books and movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve things. My self, my business, my home, my friendships, my life and lately, my female companionship situation. That is why I am here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy Hour with a group of friends, discussing sports, politics, news, local events, books, business, movies and music. Then out for dinner and to see a band or home to cook a delicious meal and watch Netflix online movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of the most shocking things I have seen here on a female member's profile was "Kinkier than you". I thought....IMPOSSIBLE! Then I read her profile. She got 5 STARS and a message from me! If you are adventurous in the bedroom, or just curious about things you have read (50 Shades, for example) or heard about but never tried, I believe you will find me very much to your liking.
You should message me if
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Anything in my profile sounds interesting. Or if you just want to have a few frosty beers with a nice, interesting person and share a bunch of laughs! Picture coming soon. All my pix on my computer are band shots and I am not sure if this site will let me crop my band mates out before I post.