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open minded, submissive, and hopeful

My self-summary Propose an edit

I absolutely hate doing these things and am never quite sure what to say.

I followed the guys from thespark over here mainly for the tests, but then it seemed like it would be fun to get to know some people, so here I am trying to sum myself up in a few paragraphs.

Hmmmm...I love to read, enjoy debate (especially theology) and am usually pretty quiet, unless I get excited about something and I get excited pretty easily sometimes...so I guess I'm not all that quiet.

I majored in literature and am a complete book nerd - mainly fantasy right now, but that changes over time - kinda like your favorite foods will change once you try something new and different.

I work too much, smoke too much, eat too much - practicing moderation is not one of my strong points, but its on my 'to do' list.

I think I'm a pretty likable person. Most people say so anyway. I'm the type everyone tells their secrets to, and I've never really figured out why that is.

.....

Right now okcupid is telling me to expand my profile essays, but I'm not really sure what else to say. More about myself...You know, if someone would ask me questions this would be easier. You could check out the myspace page I made for APS (http://www.myspace.com/apsdurham) or you could stop by a forum I frequent (http://terredange.net/forums/index.php). That last one is based on the Kushiel's Legacy series, which is one of my favorites. IF you do stop by there, my sn is Willow no Valerian.

Lets see…I'm incredibly liberal, which I think makes me a better American rather than an ungrateful one as many conservatives believe, I'm forgiving and helpful to a fault, naturally submissive. I'm attracted to more dominant people as long as there is intelligence to go with it.

I believe in God, but would never claim or attempt to speak or judge for Him. My goal in life is to make myself an expression of His love and don't believe He's nearly as hard on us as fundamentalist would have us believe.

I really can't think of anything else, but I'd love to share more of myself and learn about you, so send me a message!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I work in fund raising and development and this great non-profit indy cinema/theatre.

I've just started volunteering at the Animal Protection Society of Durham and I love it! Don't buy pets, adopt them. Always spay and neuter. Always. No matter what. There's too many homeless pets out there to breed.
*stepping off soapbox*

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And okay cupid STILL wants me to write more. What do you have to do to get a complete profile?!? I'm going to have to go find one of those stupid 'get to know you' quizzes to paste into here.

Lets see, more about what I’m doing with my life…

Well, I work in fund raising, which means I ask people to give me money. I do this by writing grants, solicitation letters, planning fund raising events and auctions and any other way I can think of. I enjoy my job, but would like to be able to focus more on grant writing and research (remember I told you I was a dork).

My volunteer job at APS is like my break from real life. I get to go in every weekend and play with these amazing cats, who want nothing more than a break from their cage and to be loved. Seriously, if you ever want a pet, go to a shelter. They have the best animals there and you will have the satisfaction of knowing you're saving a life.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Lots of things and nothing really. I'm great at analyzing literature, wasting time,page design, research, goofing off, talking too much (but only sometimes) and all kinds of other stuff. Just get to know me.

*****

And they sill want more…

I'm thinking that okcupid is going to make me say so much here that there's really going to be nothing left to talk about by the time you finish reading all of this. Is it even possible to have your profile 100% complete?

Anyway, what I'm good at. Well according to the new staff test:
Spatial is your strongest intelligence, which is surprising because it didn't seem to be your preferred genre of question. You could've scored even higher if you'd chosen it more often.

Looking at the graph below, you can see that you particularly excelled at spatial and social problems. Specialization is well rewarded in today's world.
Your Comparative Intelligences
verbal: 87
math: 85
spatial: 124
social: 124

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Its really insane how much you have to write to complete your profile here. I guess I'm just not going to be able to complete my profile right now. If you've got any tips, let me know!

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I've been told its my eyes, but I'm not other people so I don't know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

A. I love all kinds of books, but these are some of my current favorites.

Master of the Game

Kushiel's Legacy Series

The Witching Hour

Sleeping Beauty Trilogy

Marketplace Series

Dark Tower Series

any fantasy really...

B. Like books, I like many types of movies. These are some of my current favorites:

Fight Club

12 Monkeys

Shawshank Redemption

Swordfish

C. I love music, especially rock:

Smashing Pumpkins

Pink Floyd

Fleetwood Mac

Nickleback

Switchfoot

Puddle of Mudd

And who can help but to see the importance of Johnny Cash

D. I'm not picky

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

a good book,
my imagination,
someone to talk to,
something to hope for,
someone to depend on,
someone who depends on me.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

All kinds of crazy stuff. Nothing sticks out in my mind more than most.

Let's see...of course, whatever I'm reading at the moment (and what I want to read next); my job; my cat, Jojo; whatever I have planned for the weekend; the cats at APS and how I can help get them adopted; whatever news or political situation is interesting me at the moment; philosophy; theology; really, all kinds of stuff.

Catch me in a talkative mood and you never know what you'll hear.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

it all depends on my mood...or my job. Maybe reading a book, supervising an event I planned, playing with Jojo (my cat), having a few (or more) drinks...

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Are you serious? I have no idea who's reading this. Why in the world would I divulge private things in a public forum?

You should message me if Propose an edit

You're an interesting person who has something to say and you think we'd get along. I'm not just looking for a date here - friends are always good to have. I'm just looking for someone who shares my interests and likes to get to know people.

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ganymeda: 1171 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$30,000-$40,000
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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