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35 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a divorcé giving this thing a shot. Pretty busy with work and single fatherhood, but understanding that I've got needs, dammit. I do. And so, here I am, posting pictures and writing about myself.

The truth is I love to date. I enjoy gaining new experiences however awkward and weird they may be. There's adventure and mystery to it. Oh - wait - did you just drool? Well, I just spilled soup all over my pants. It's all fine, really. Here's a breath mint. We'll live.

So, yes, I want to have fun, and if I meet someone especially cool then, all the better.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a child/family psychotherapist. I bounce between two outpatient clinics in the city, and thoroughly enjoy the work. It's rewarding and stimulating in many various ways. The level of unpredictability at the start of any session is truly exciting.

Three days out of the week, I spend time with my daughter. She's the best! Especially, if you're into insanely cute and freaking awesome people that are four years old and totally convinced that they are Batman. I'm always Robin. Pretty lame deal.

I also sing, play guitar, and write songs in a band. We're close to playing shows soon - really looking forward to it!

Oh and I'm on this thing called Okcupid, now. Not weird at all!
I’m really good at
Ping Pong
Explaining my aversion of hidden raisins
Impersonating Charlton Heston
Withstanding extra spicy foods
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe my hair, and my dimples. These things have been mentioned to me before. Oh and random drunk people on the street frequently tell me that I look like Matt Damon or Mark Wahlberg, and then they just wander off into oncoming traffic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm currently reading a bunch of pulp fiction - really into Raymond Chandler and Dashiell Hammett. Kind of a sucker for the convoluted plots and quick-witted dialogue.

Alfred Hitchcock slays me. Same goes for Kurosawa and there are a bunch of French guys from the 60's that did some bizarre stuff that's still fresh every time I check it out. International movies probably make up the majority of my favorites. However, with all that said, going to the movies for a blockbuster and a huge bag of popcorn is a cherished pastime. Give me the 3-D glasses!
I will refuse The Smurfs.

I've decided to revisit The Wire. Easily, my favorite show of all-time. Beyond that, I'm a big fan of True Detective, Game of Thrones, Mr. Show, and The Kids in the Hall. House of Cards really sucked me into a black hole over the winter.

Music is something I used to be super snobby about in my twenties, but then I developed enough guilty pleasures to break it. Best thing that could have happened to me. All thanks to Mozart (I can't believe I said it!)
No. Not true.
Curtis Mayfield is my god. I'll just say that.

I often crave Santucci's pizza and have a hard time turning down good Indian and Chinese.
The six things I could never do without
My sanity
My toaster oven
A freaking umbrella that actually works
The occasional conversation about the sign for "A Man's Image" on Passyunk
My Ray Bans
Chocolate chips for my daughter's Sunday morning pancakes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why the songs "Inna Gada Davida" and "Tales of Brave Ulysses" pop into my head about every other day, converge, and disorient me for about five minutes at a time. It's been happening for the last fifteen years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying the company of friends at Fountain Porter. Possibly, seeing a show at Johnny Brenda's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sade changed my life.

I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Should's are bad news, people.