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56 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:21pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Raised in Tokyo, Japan. Spent many years working there as an adult as well. Am entrenched in Seattle now.

Currently work at writing. My business is helping people to celebrate their happy occasions. And am going to school full time.

Don't have any children of my own, but adore my nieces and nephews. Your children are welcome. I have the requisite attachment to dogs and would hope that you can at least humor me with much love and fawning over my darling pit bull as well. Seem to be partial to all mollosers.

My music tastes run from Miles Davis to Little Dragon to Townes Van Zandt to Thurston Moore. I am on a Max Richter jag right now. Reads I revisit are J.M. Coetzee's "Disgrace", Somerset Maughm's "Of Human Bondage" and Nabokov.

My "set-point" for happiness is quite high. Even if setbacks occur I tend to go back to that high sunny water level. I tend to be optimistic but not pollyanna. Expressiveness is important to me.

I adore clever women who utter clever words.
What I’m doing with my life
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Going to school full-time, working a lot, and trying to find a girlfriend.
I’m really good at
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Avoiding the boring. Paying attention. Giving and receiving affection. Cooing to my dog. Deftly opening a bottle of cab. The art of conversation. Traveling with my partner. Hanging drywall and mudding. Listening. Finding a way to peace in conflict.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I have hints of formality when they first meet me that probably comes from years in Japan.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food first: stuffed squid at Tamarind Tree, almond croissants from Le Fournil, green chilli at Innkeeper, pork belly kimchi at Black Bottle, miso ramen at Fu Lin, soft tofu soondubu at Old Village, mushroom chilli at Cherry Street cafe, the dumplings at Revel, seafood egg noodles (#58) at Green Leaf, yellowtail hand-rolled sushi at Kisaku, in a pinch Mabo-dofu (or Mapo-tofu) at Uptown China, hot and sour soup at Sea Garden (now defunct!), jambon et fromage at Le Pichet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Brown waxy Wolverine boots, Arts & Letters Daily site, Vitamix, Pour-over drip coffee, curling up with puppies, witty ladies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing my work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use chopsticks a lot.
You should message me if
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See something worthy...or that makes you curious.