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43 Raleigh, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 34–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ok Men of OKCupid Land – I’m gonna lay it on the line for you.

I am kind and decent person. I have a job and I love my kids. I like to have fun, and you could do far worse in the looks department.

Also much like you, I’ve had good relationships, not so good relationships, and relationships that just left me wondering what planet I was on when I decided to let this person in my life.

I want what every girl out there wants: A man with mouthful of teeth and head full of dreams. Someone who knows what a due date on a bill means. Someone who can make a frozen dinner. Someone who doesn’t use the phrase, “Get’er done.”

However, after being in the online dating world for more years than I care to admit to, I find that these demands of mine are a tall order.

So I am taking drastic measures.
I am officially lowering my standards.
Please take advantage of my limited time offer!

If you are emotionally unavailable and needy, then look no further!

Commitment-Phobes: You guys turn me on!

If you live across the country or across the ocean, I might be the one for you.

If you want to keep messaging me without ever meeting me, NO PROBLEM!

If you use Groupons on the first date, I think I love you already.

If you text during dates, that’s awesome! I’ll text too!

Do you take pictures of yourself in the shower? Yay!

***Rehab stints, DUI’s, and siblings not speaking to you because of your toast at their wedding, a DEFINITE plus.

Other qualities I’m looking for:

Vagueness, irritability, selfishness, bitterness, negativity, not over you ex, bad grammar, and can’t spell. All good stuff for me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Since I'm usually busy storming the castle, sometimes my schedule is a bit hectic. You know castle warfare can be quite demanding. In some of that spare time, I managed to get past the guards to become a 2nd Degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staple surgery.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My invisible tattoo
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: To Kill a Mockingbird, Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It; The Storyteller, Live Your Truth ...

TV: some Reality TV, News but I don't watch much anymore.

Music: I am all over the place with music! Rock, Pop, Classic Rock, 80's, 70's, 60's, most anything! My favorites as of late are Alternative Bands (Three Days Grace, 3 Doors Down, Stone Temple Pilots, Live, Linkin Park, Alice in Chains, etc), Daughtry and I am a big Snow Patrol Fan too. I was lucky enough to meet Daughtry, Snow Patrol & Ed Sheeran in 2012 and 3 Doors Down in 2014, huge highlights for me!

Movies: I love comedies, including The Princess Bride, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Beetlejuice, Argo, Les Miserables, Lincoln, Four Weddings & a Funeral, Wedding Crashers, Salt, and many more!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Kids
My family
My friends
My iphone
My Music
But of course, my SARCASM!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Can I pet sit for you?
Can I help you move?
How can I make you happy?
Can I give you a ride to the airport?
What foods do you like to eat?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Is there a typical Friday night? You be the judge!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m a cute, confident, and positive person who loves life. I hope that doesn’t blow my chances with you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
"Just a small town boy, living in the lonely world, you took that midnight train going anywhere…" Sound Familiar? Great! I like someone who knows lyrics to songs or movies.

If you are not divorced yet, in respect for your former marriage, please wait until it's complete.

Since we both lead active, busy lives, we take it as a priority to spend time together. And though I’m no Olive Oil, be sure you have the wiliness’ of Popeye and Brutus’ brawn. Also, I can probably take care of it myself, but nothing is more appealing than a man who can help me figure out that how to fix that leaky faucet or remedy the latest internet virus. You can’t resist giving to help others in need.

Also you respect my commitment to Judaism and support me in my active role. Additionally, you are able to take this novice canoeing and in the midst...we will have so much fun we almost tip over from laughter or you write me a note about our first conversation.

Surprise me with that 3 o’clock Chai Latte to make the day go by quicker. If that business meeting is running overtime before our date, you call or text to say you will be a little late. Oh and be sure you have a one-liner ready to go at a moment’s notice.... I can throw out some funny ones! Sound like a tall order? Nah…it’s the whole picture. You can have me at hello.

Oh and I just adore those sentences in 4 words or less!