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I’m looking for
- Ages 28–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Jun 21
- Queer, Pansexual
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
Art and music are big parts of my life and I am striving to make them bigger. I play cello for A Stick and a Stone (https://astickandastone.bandcamp.com) and we're looking for a drummer! Is it you? Or someone you know?
My values include transformational growth and I am actively working at healing myself; my masculine self from the tyranny of patriarchy, my Irish Euro Pegan self from white supremacy and my Pan Fairy Faggot self from homophobia and sexual Puritanism. I work on these things with a little help from my feminist men’s group, we call ourselves PAMPs (Person with Access to Male Privilage), Re-evaluation co-counseling, and Magic.
Music: Frank Ocean. James Blake, Gillian Welch, Cat Power, Bell and Sebastian...
- You wanna bro out and get geeky about relationship processing, music, social justice work, or feminist sci-fi novels, and make out.
- You wanna go on cute dates that might include, exploring in the woods, emotionally vulnerable conversation, biking, wrestling, sweet potato fries, random wacky art shows and music….
- You’re a sex positive slut
- You wanna explore kink
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