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32 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 27
Queer, Pansexual, Bisexual
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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So I've been described as a Butch-Queen and a Glitter Baby, I like that… I'm Queer, Polyamorous, anarchist, feminist… singing, dancing, making beats and sounds with my mouth my body, my mind. I'm decolonizing rewilding my life… doin a pretty good job, Successful! Staying close to others who see me, inspire me and are committed to resistance in what ever form it might take. Put on a play, blow up a damn, quite your job, tell your dad you love him, keep this revolution boiling.
What I’m doing with my life
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I live in an intentional community here in South West. My place on the land is down under the barn next to the goats (its super cute).

This community and this land is a big part of my life. Trying to be here as much as I can, because I love it, and I want to be tending and creating a sanctuary here for anyone, especially those who traditionally have less access to land and nature. (

I'm playing music, which is becoming more and more a part of my life. I play cello for A Stick and a Stone ( and we are looking for a drummer! is it You? or someone you know?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building and creating beautiful things, structures, sculptures and music. listening and holding space for challenging emotions. I'm good at playing and making toys and spaces to play in.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My awkward Toothy grin
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ursula Laguin, Octavia Butler, Star Halk, John Steinbeck, Barbara Kingsolver, Dean Spade, Bell Hooks, Michelle Alexander...

Music: Frank Ocean. James Blake, Gillian Welch, Cat Power, Bell and Sebastian...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Deepening relationships which is nurturing my family and building community… Beats!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, playing music, visiting friends, laughing, crying, snuggling.
You should message me if
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You know your 'stuff' and can own it when it comes up.
If you like lots of physical play (dance, acro-yoga, wrestling).
If you enjoy getting out into nature, good food, playing music/ singing.
You have strong anti-capitalist, anti-oppression politics