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31 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Mar 4
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a hummingbird that makes sounds. i am making myself available for all that spirit has in store (I get down with some Woo) I'm a fairy, queer, sis-male. I am quick to smile and to laugh, playful and curious, but don't be confused, I drop in and go deep and am staying strong for the hard stuff. I am loyal as fuck and quick to let go of what isn't serving me and try on to something new.

I have been finding and developing a desire and capacity for loving relationship. Relationships are deeply satisfying and meaningful to me when they are long term, committed, and flexibly shift between and embody qualities of friend, lover, partner and everything in between.
What I’m doing with my life
Having lots of time and space and working hard to keep it that way - I'm slowing down, spreading out, and sinking in, permaculturing my life - Stacking functions, maximizing my yield, Living Big - learning about myself, who I am beyond my training as white, as male, as middle class - being with people I love, knowing them better and thinking about my community. Living in a beautiful home with other lovely creatures -
working also in carpentry and construction.

I'm a musician. I sing and play the cello and mandolin. I am currently looking for other folks to play music with, so if your interested hit me up!
I’m really good at
Being good to myself - making mistakes, owning them and doing better. I'm good at keeping my life in balance; time by myself; with friends and family. I'm really good at helping others feel safe and welcome; giving and hearing feedback; creating boundaries for myself and respecting and encouraging others to do the same.
I'm good at making delicious food and beautiful art with whatever is around. I'm good at making sounds with my body and my mouth and Musical instruments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Red Tent, The Fifth Sacred Thing, Steinbeck, Kingsolver, Morrison...
Nonfiction: Dean Spade, Bell Hooks, Michelle Alexander...
Music: Gillian Welch, Cat Power, Bell and Sebastian...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Deepening relationships which is nurturing my family and building community. Patterns of oppression, Male oppression, What it means to be an ally, Not thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, playing music, visiting friends, laughing, crying, snuggling.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know your stuff and can own it when it comes up.
If you like lots of physical play (dance, acro-yoga, wrestling).
If you enjoy getting out into nature, good food, playing music/ singing.
You have strong anti-capitalist, anti-oppression politics