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32 M Jamaica Plain, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 10
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m looking ultimately for someone to settle down with, but for now, I want a meaningful relationship with an intelligent, exciting, and passionate person. My match would be my equal – someone that will share and expand my interests, challenge my thoughts and my feelings, support and expect support, and be at once intelligent and silly. I find ambition very attractive, value intelligence and thoughtfulness, honesty and sensitivity, and think life without humor is exhausting. I want someone who makes the other aspects of my life more vibrant, is excited about life and the future, and sees me for who I am.

I make great music all day. I have a very fulfilling job and professional life, but I'd like to find someone to share all of that with. There's no pressure for that, however. I'd just like to meet some interesting, passionate, and fun people.

I am old-fashioned (but fun!), quiet and loud, nerdy and oblivious, passionate and shy, and honest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a faculty member at a conservatory in Boston. I teach conducting, choral literature, and conduct one of the choirs. Basically, I'm finally living a dream I've had since I was in high school. It was a long road - LOTS of school - to get here, but I'm thrilled with where I am in my life.

But it keeps me very busy. I'm building a program, but looking for other areas of fulfillment in my life.

When I'm not teaching, I'm traveling, cycling, playing tennis, or thinking about how to do any of the aforementioned things better. I really love going to restaurants, concerts, and the theater, so that's probably what I'm doing in the evenings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being silly, enjoying other people's company, being with my family and friends, and making music. I also can work a mean crossword puzzle, cook a great meal, and find something silly in almost any situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm quite quirky, but in a socially acceptable nerdy way, if that makes any sense. I have heard that people notice my smile, as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too complicated to answer. But suffice it to say, I like all of these things a great deal. Let's see if we like the same kind of things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my piano, my iphone (how awful!), somewhere to sing, something to read, my family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what needs improving in my life. I think a great deal about art, education, music, and whatever subject I'm reading at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually performing somewhere, if not, then it's at a great new restaurant with friends, or an old favorite with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmmm... nope, you'll have to ask
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) you see or have read anything that intrigues you

2) your shirtless pic is up here because it really is a great picture of you, not because it indicates all that you're really looking for on here. No judgement - you're just probably not for me.

3) you've got something to say, and you'd like to say it to me. :)