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35 Tempe, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Look... I hate to say it, but this just isn't working out. And don't feel bad; it's not you, it's me. I just don't think love is in the cards for me, and we both gave it our best effort. Frankly I just don't see myself with anyone right now. You're really sweet and a lot of fun but I just don't feel that spark. So, instead of drawing this out, I'm just going to cut it off here before your feelings get hurt.

10 facts about me:
1. Extrovert. I have rarely had a bad date because I am able to carry a conversation, and bring out the fun in even the most introverted.
2. Animal lover. I have a dog and two cats, but I would have horses and tigers and a Peregrine Falcon and and a griffon if I had the space, the money, and if all of them actually existed.
3. Former boy scout. I love backpacking, camping, hiking fishing, shooting, and being in nature. Always be prepared.
4. Student. I have my nose in a book more often than I would prefer, but it will pay off soon. Consider me an investment.
5. Foodie. I love trying new places, new types of food, and cooking new recipes. This is even better when you have someone to compare notes with.
6. Intellectual. We WILL talk about more than the weather. This includes, but is not limited to, values, hopes and dreams, religion, politics, law, economics, and kittens.
7. Leo. Look it up, that be me, the good (loyal, confident, generous), and the bad (stubborn, vain, bombastic).
8. HOPELESS romantic. Like seriously, if I fall, I fall hard.
9. 93% nerd, hence the screen name. I love fantasy novels, Star Wars, and playing around on my computer. The other 7% is mostly sawdust and twine.
10. Genuine. I speak from the heart, I don't play games, and I care about my integrity.

I have a lot of good friends, which makes me feel both lucky and thankful. My family is the most important thing I have going right now. Friends come right after that, and I'm always open to making more. I moved to Tempe to attend law school, and am still pretty new. I lived in Phoenix years ago, but it would be cool to have someone show me around again.

What I'm looking for in a partner, is really just that,a partner. I want someone I can share my thoughts and aspirations with, and who will in turn share with me. I love being in a relationship where we are comfortable enjoying evenings at home during the week, but with romantic nights out on the weekend. We might argue, but I'll ALWAYS be on your side. I love doing that sappy stuff. I don't mind being "dragged" out to run errands or whatever silly things couples do on weekends. I love being a source of emotional strength and support, and love having the same. I want trust and real intimacy. I get that this is shooting the moon, but I deserve a girl who deserves a prince. I have a bright future and want someone to share it with, but I also want someone who is invested in the journey with me. I want a "for better or worse" kind of girl. Ok, I'm going to stop now before I give out my social security number...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm laser-focused on my goals right now, for which I have had to make sacrifices. I left a full-time professional career to pursue my dream of being a lawyer. My ultimate goal is to get out to SoCal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This guy has never heard the term "inside voices."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A Man in Full by Thomas Wolfe changed my life...
House of Leaves by Mark Z. Danielewski
Anything by H.P. Lovecraft
Fantasy novels by authors such as:
George R.R. Martin
Joe Abercrombie
Poli Sci textbooks
Legal case books

Top five movies off the top of my head
1. Labyrinth
2. Ferris Bueller's Day off
3. Inception
4. Rounders
5. Suckers (5 points if you've heard of it, 20 if you've seen it)

House of Cards
Breaking Bad
The Leftovers
Silicon Valley
Black Sails
House M.D.
The League
Game of Thrones
True Blood
Pawn Stars
The West Wing
The New Girl (I didn't expect to like this show when I heard of it, but now I'm looking for the Jessica Day to my Nick Miller)

I'm open to a lot of different kinds of music and it varies with my mood
90s Alternative
90s Hip Hop
80s New Wave
Classic Rock like Rolling Stones and Led Zepplin
Some EDM
Some Indie
Some Country

Everything except Natto
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Kiton bespoke K50 Suit.
2. My Zenvo ST1
3. My Richard Mille Tourbillon RM 56-02 Sapphire
4. My Vertu Signature Touch Smartphone
5. My Vacation Home in Malibu
6. Gullible Gold-Diggers

For real though:
Hugin and Munin fly each day
over the spacious earth.
I fear for Hugin, that he come not back,
yet more anxious am I for Munin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to take over the world... right pinky?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Marveling at how I got through another week of school.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have as much faith in online dating as I once did. It is sometimes hard to get through the BS and connect online. Maybe because the next person is just a click away, we treat each other as disposable. It's kinda tragic actually.
You should message me if
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You are awesome, want to try to make my heart skip a beat, or like sushi...

You should NOT message me if:
You are shallow, boring, or if drugs are an important part of your life