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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 15
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I want to live in the present moment as best I can and try to look for the joyful as much as is humanly possible. However, I don't believe in bullshit saccharine fake smiles and happiness, just genuine positivity when it happens. I am polyamorous and I have been in an openly honest polyamorous relationship with someone since 1979. I would expect any partner met here to also be polyamorous.
What I’m doing with my life
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writing and performing poetry, meditatively listening to music while drinking wine or Chinese tea, reading cultural theory and social theory type books, supporting progressive left activism such as union rights for workers and rights for refugees
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. about? The Three T's : talking, thinking, tantra.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my excessively colourful clothes and my equally colourful vocabulary
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book : James Joyce - Ulysses; Movie : Jacques Tati - Playtime; Music : Mozart, Mahler, Ravel, deep house, nu jazz breakbeat, salsa; Food : hot and spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) poetry 2) music 3) theoretical analysis 4) sensual touching of other human beings 5) struggling for a better world 6) calm meditation when not struggling for a better world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the six things above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...doing one or more of the six things above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cry a lot when listening to certain music.
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