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53 Melbourne, Australia Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:01am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm polyamorous and bisexual, mostly interested in women these days. I believe we should share our beautiful love with many people. WARNING : I am not some sexist, patronising polygamist - I want women to share their love with others as I do. ALSO : I am not after casual sex, I'm looking for ongoing beautiful friendships and love in a polyamorous framework. I have been with my main longterm partner since we were teenagers. During those 34 years we have enjoyed various polyamorous loving relationships. I would particularly suit women in similar longterm relationships themselves.
What I’m doing with my life
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writing and performing poetry, meditatively listening to music while drinking wine or Chinese tea, reading cultural theory and social theory type books, supporting progressive left activism such as union rights for workers and rights for refugees
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. about? The Three T's : talking, thinking, tantra.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my excessively colourful clothes and my equally colourful vocabulary
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book : James Joyce - Ulysses; Movie : Jacques Tati - Playtime; Music : Mozart, Mahler, Ravel, soulful house, nu jazz breakbeat, salsa; Food : hot and spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) poetry 2) music 3) theoretical analysis 4) sensual touching of other human beings 5) struggling for a better world 6) calm meditation when not struggling for a better world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the six things above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...doing one or more of the six things above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cry a lot when listening to certain music.
You should message me if
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