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60 • Port Chester, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 50–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 4:03pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Science / Engineering
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I have a real soft heart, one that considers myself and other thoughts and feelings. I'm not perfect at it. No one really is. Well, not many.
I feel a great love for art, for the more familiar and for the more challenging, even uncomfortable a little bit. I love music, live music is my best diversion. Meditations, yoga and stretching, running and hiking or just a walk.
Tonight I watched ShawShank Redemption all the way through for probably the first time, while having seen it in parts many times, enough to have known the entire story. I wanted to see it in whole this time. Not just to relax. But to touch some piece of soft heart that was awakened today, by a series of events.
Some favorite movies have been Cinema Paradiso, a sleeper called Dark Star that could have become a cult classic if it had been marketed at all, The Last Wave where modern culture meets Aborigine climaxing in a climatic ending of the world wave, Whale Rider which I enjoyed the well written dialogue, and a few hundred more. My Favorite Year and My Favorite Architect (sometimes called The Architect) are two wonderful films I can watch again and again between some delay. Born Yesterday and some other Billy Holiday performances are priceless entertainment. Many of Billy Wilder's films.
I already described some of my music interests in my "self-summary" and add here some artists I appreciate are Marcus Roberts, Chick Corea, Cyrus Chestnut, Oscar Peterson, Ellington, Ella...Thelonious Monk, Herbie Hancock, Ornette Coleman...
How poorly they ate on the Roseanne show.
Coaco, sex, caffeine, work, Buddhist teachings, in any particular order.
About bodhichitta. A quote on it: "An analogy for bodhichitta is the rawness of a broken heart. Sometimes this broken heart gives birth to anxiety and panic, sometimes to anger, resentment, and blame. But under the hardness of that armor there is the tenderness of genuine sadness. This is our link with all those who have ever loved. This genuine heart of sadness can teach us great compassion. It can humble us when we're arrogant and soften us when we are unkind. It awakens us when we prefer to sleep and pierces through our indifference. This continual ache of the heart is a blessing that when accepted fully can be shared with all."
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