I am an unapologetic nerd, but I have long come to realize that this doesn't mean I need to live in a cave so I try to keep my blinds open and my area clean.
I firmly believe that there is someone out there for everyone with whom a relationship would work with zero effort. I also believe that the odds are very low of you ever even running into that person let alone becoming involved with them, so you'd damn well better be prepared to work for a relationship worth having.
I love the theater. I have seen Lion King twice, Phantom of the Opera twice (once here on tour and once in Vegas), Stomp four times (three here, once in Vegas), as well as many other shows. I make it a point to make it to at least one show during every season, even if I have no one else who wants to go.
I am generic, geeky, and good humored
I also spend 10-15 hours a week doing volunteer "work" for an e-sports organization dedicated to the elimination of toxicity from gaming culture. I organize tournaments, shoutcast, and do general administration tasks.
Movies - Wall Street, Fight Club, Thank You for Smoking, A Few Good Men, Burn After Reading, Starship Troopers, American Beauty, Lion King, Star Wars (Original Trilogy), Demolition Man.
I'm also a sucker for disaster movies (Day After Tomorrow, 2012, Armageddon, etc.) to the point where I even enjoy the made for TV SyFy disaster movies, but those I usually just enjoy because of how BAD they are. I have also discovered a soft spot for foreign adolescent romances, my favorite being Let the Right One In which is also a vampire movie, so total bonus.
Music - I enjoy a wide range of music and have the library to back up the statement. If I listened to all my music straight through, non-stop, I could go over a week without hearing a repeat song. I'm also really big into the local ska scene, enough so that one of the (in my opinion) best local ska bands, Victims of Circumstance, gave me the privilege of getting on stage and singing a song with them.
Food - I love American cuisine. Burgers, fries, ribs, steaks. If it moos or is bad for you, I probably enjoy it.
There's stuff missing from each section here because I like A LOT of things.
1 - Teh interwebs!
2 - My sense of humor
3 - My computer
4 - Intellectual conversation
5 - ???
6 - Profit
Also whether or not Canada is real or just a scary government story mothers tell their children to make them behave.
Really, "if you want to" is about the best thing to say. I'm not the type of person who would hold the first move against a girl.