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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5' 9" (1.75m)
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Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English, Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am open minded. I believe that if you can think it, someone will do it. And while I wouldn't say that I have lowered my expectations for people, I certainly have BROADER expectations of what people are capable of.

With that being said, I enjoy collecting stories and perspectives from new people. I've moved around a bit (14x; 5 countries) and tend to be a vagabond at times. Life's no fun without benders--what's the point of living if you can't surprise yourself?

I'm looking for someone who is intellectually curious, open-minded, and honest, with both herself and others.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an attorney. My firm primarily does intellectual property litigation. Previously, I worked in neurogenetics and publishing.

But the above are just jobs. When I can, I pursue adventures off the beaten path, where I can learn from those whose lives are different. I tend toward contemplation and enjoy reading (history) and writing (poetry). At the end of the day, the residue of memory is love; I am just trying to find and do what I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
compartmentalizing, yet taking the long view. and at failing. if you aren't failing, you ain't trying.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my sincerity. the fact that my hair is now short and professional. cuz you know, i'm an officer of the bar and all that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I really enjoy listening to CRASS top 40 stuff; I often wonder if artists like Akon and whoever sang "Who Booty" were being ironic. I hope not. In seriousness, I listen to a little bit of everything--ethereal pop, jazz, soul, rap, rock, etc.; Mr. Little Jeans, Alice Russell, UGK, Nada Surf, etc.

Books: I wouldn't say I have favorite books. I tend to read them and never touch them again, but here are some I really enjoyed recently--The Coming Anarchy, Vodka Politics, Blood and Thunder, Vanished Kingdoms, A Song of Ice and Fire. Most of these books center on the rise and FALL of nation-states/empires. Maybe this is the schadenfreude in me.

Movies: Lawrence of Arabia; Guardians of the Galaxy; Batman (the Christian Bale ones).

Shows: Game of Thrones; Hawaii Five-O; Dexter; Bones; Rome. I am slightly embarrassed, but I love over the top stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

a book to read



the occasional experience of something lovely

the ability to surprise oneself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not i can fucking park in LA. how the hell would i know if there are 6 signs?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
let's be honest--most of us are drinking. the non-drinkers are 4x richer than the rest of us as a result. this drinking may be mixed with either high brow (art galleries) or low brow stuff (dive bars and pool with bro friends), but the result is the same--we make stupid decisions that we hope will remain fun even when we sober up. i have had much success in making fun decisions. or is it luck? idk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I fell asleep while riding a bike once. I also lost a friend in Colombia and had to file police reports in terrible Spanish before locating him in an alley while cruising around Bogota with two policeman in a tiny Fiat taxi.
You should message me if
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You have imaginative sympathy and want to build a real connection. Solitudes are common, their synchronies, rare.