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26 Santa Fe, NM Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:21pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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my passions are history and poetry. i enjoy looking at photos and wondering what extends beyond the frame. i like looking at history through the lens of art and aesthetics. art is always on the same street as life.

i've moved around 11x, and no, i don't really identify with any place as "home."

irrationally, i often feel like i inordinately relate to third eye blind songs.
What I’m doing with my life
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was a neurogeneticist. now, i'm a scientific periodicals editor for a swiss co. and a researcher at the ALI working on the R3d for intl commercial arbitration. done with law school in nyc. will be clerking in santa fe. i'll then practice patent lit in LA.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
indulging honesty. doing the quiet things that show people i care.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the different shades of my laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Lawrence of Arabia

Shows: Game of Thrones
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my cowboy boots (the judge bought me a bolo tie . . . hell i needed them, and now they are the all-weather shoes i wear)
my rolfer (good for you if you know what this is)
music (cliche, but it's healing; insert citation for oliver sacks)
my kindle (why have magazines in the bathroom when you can have a kindle?)
the rowing machine (great for posture)
banana republic (as the src of cheap business cas for work)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random shit?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
drunkenly conversing with random people about their countries' histories and socio-economic challenges; this is usually fueled by single malt whiskey (i prefer speysides). at a jazz club w/ great food. trying to convince someone to catch prince igor with me (hint hint . . . so down to go). shooting pool at a dive bar. etc.

re the above: i need to find shit to do in sf.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I fell asleep while riding a bike once.
You should message me if
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you think we would have a good conversation. i'm looking for someone kind and curious, who has a poet's heart while maintaining her sense of pragmatism.